@panzade,
panzade, I really appreciate your tolerance of my rude postings, but I really don't deserve it from that perspective. When I was a kid growing up in Sacramento, I wore eyeglasses, and many of the kids used to pick on me. I learned early on that if I fought back, they left me alone. My older brother's report card used to have the gold stars on his, but mine said "ci fights too much!" Since then, I've never backed down from insults or threats, and I probably over-react from habit.
My wife gave me a t-shirt many years ago that says "PATIENCE." I'm trying.