@Finn dAbuzz,
Joe Nation wrote:What a remarkably rude thing to say to a widow.
Joe(incalculable social density)Nation
Finn dAbuzz wrote:Joe (Sometimes it pays to actually think before firing off a post) Nation
What is "rude" about it.
I don 't believe that Joe Nation ever got back to us, on this point.
I am
genuinely curious to know his reasoning.
Finn dAbuzz wrote:Do you think the widow doesn't wish her husband had had a loaded weapon
and killed the lunatic before he could shoot him?
I understand that thay were in divorce proceedings at the time of his death,
which cut short the process.
Finn dAbuzz wrote:I understand her aversion to guns, but it's truly remarkable to think or suggest
that she would prefer her husband dead to his killing a mad assailant with one.
She was socially shocked by my expressed wishes to offer emergency equipment
for the rescue of her husband.
When I said that I wish that I coud have given him a loaded gun,
I saw her face turn very abruptly
to her left and remain there for a while.
This occurred at an anti-self defense speech
that she was giving, during Q & A.
From her near 100% female audience,
a great and sudden
moan was forthcoming
when I uttered my retrospective desire
to save him from the killer.
She and thay preferred that he perish (as he did)
rather than that he be armed in his own defense,
when his life depended on it.
I think that is
definitive.
Finn dAbuzz wrote:I'm not suggesting that she should have reacted to her tragedy by promoting gun ownership, but if she loved her husband (and there is no reason to think she did not) [Thay were in divorce proceedings.] she would be delighted to reach back through time and give him a means to ensure he would have left that train alive.