@edgarblythe,
If she's like my sister, its a blessing. My sister and my last conversation went something like this:
Sissy: I was afraid after not seeing you in five years you may have changed ... but no ... you're the same asshole you ever were!
Me: At least I've achieved consistency, you're at least 10 times the **** head you ever were!
As you can imagine, tea at my mother's house is .. errr .. a tad strained.