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Hey, Can A Woman "Ask To Get Raped"?

 
 
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Thu 8 May, 2014 05:11 pm
@izzythepush,
izzythepush wrote:

You're forgetting, both Hall and Clifford were found guilty. The police had every right, and duty, to go after people like that.



that was more impressive before we started to whisper about the people who the government was so sure were evil guilty people that the government killed them, or put them on life sentences, only to latter admit that they were either for sure or probably not guilty.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Thu 8 May, 2014 05:24 pm
@hawkeye10,
It's the courts that are doing this, not the government, and not your bloody government.

Who's ******* whispering? I'm not.

Btw, that's a really lousy "sentence," you've been suckling at the breast of BillRM for way too long.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Thu 8 May, 2014 05:34 pm
@izzythepush,
Quote:
It's the courts that are doing this, not the government


You are pulling my leg now, I know that you are not this stupid.
firefly
 
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Reply Thu 8 May, 2014 05:34 pm
@hawkeye10,
Aren't you confusing juries--groups of your fellow citizens--with the government? Isn't that who generally hands down sentences and decides on the death penalty in our courts? Don't you even know that much about the criminal justice system? Ever actually watched a trial, Hawkeye? Laughing

Beside, izzy, who definitely does not support the death penalty, was talking about the duty of the police to investigate and "go after" people they have reason to suspect have already committed serious crimes--including sexual assaults/rape--and to gather the necessary evidence to prosecute them. And, in the cases he refers to, convictions were obtained.

Do you honestly think these two people were misidentified--which is the primary reason that some are later exonerated after conviction?

You're even running out of hot air. Laughing

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firefly
 
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Reply Thu 8 May, 2014 05:49 pm
This man's trial probably contained enough specific evidence of his sexually assaultive criminal behavior to satisfy even Hawkeye. And it had been videotaped by the rapist himself.
Quote:
Craigslist rapist gets 36 years
By Amanda MarrazzoTribune reporter
May 8, 2014

A Woodstock man accused of raping eight women he met through online sex ads was sentenced this afternoon to 36 years in prison.

Charles Oliver, 46, was convicted by a McHenry County jury in February of criminal sexual assault and unlawful restraint of a 22-year-old woman in his home in November 2012. In March, he pleaded guilty to sexually assaulting a second woman he had met on Craigslist and paid for sex.

In exchange for his guilty plea, prosecutors dropped the remaining six cases against Oliver and agreed not to press any new charges should additional claims be made.

"Sir, this court finds you to truly be a predator," Judge Sharon Prather told Oliver. "You had no (regard) for these women. ... You treated them horribly. ... You humiliated and degraded them. ... I saw the fear and terror in the faces of many of those women."

Authorities said Oliver had a pattern of meeting women online and agreeing to exchange money for sex with them. But after taking them back to his home, he became threatening, verbally abusive and, in some cases, violent, and forced the women to perform acts to which they had not agreed. He often videotaped these acts.

During his trial, videos were shown of Oliver engaging in sex with the two victims he's convicted of raping. In one video, Oliver is seen forcing himself on the second victim and verbally berating her. The woman is seen and heard crying and saying, "no," "stop" and "you’re scaring me." Oliver could be heard saying, "I don’t have to listen to you. I paid you."

Both women testified at Oliver’s trial, describing similar encounters.

Police said Oliver also stole women’s IDs and threatened to expose them as prostitutes if they reported what he had done, authorities said.

During a search of Oliver’s Woodstock home, authorities discovered zip ties, police scanners, personal items belonging to several different women and a large volume of photographs and videos that he had made of himself having sex with various women.

Following the trial, rape victim advocates lauded the conviction, which they said dispels the dangerous fallacy that someone who accepts money for sex does not have the right to say no.

Before handing down her sentence, Prather told Oliver that he had made a choice to pick "vulnerable women" to abuse. He took advantage of the fact that they were troubled and that they would be reluctant to report him because they had offered sex for money, the judge said.

Prather noted that she had "the displeasure" of viewing the many sex videos he had made of the women.

Woodstock Police Detective George Kopulos took the stand today and said there were other women he had seen on Oliver’s sex videos who had not yet been identified. One woman "was tied up and screaming," the detective said.

"We still have concerns about her safety and where she is located," Kopulos said.

Kopulos said detectives have reached out to other states trying to reach other women seen in photographs and on videos retrieved from Oliver’s home.

Oliver also admitted to having herpes and still choosing not to wear condoms, the officer said.

Woodstock Police Detective Robbie Branum testified about another woman whose mother had reported she had been raped. The woman agreed to sex for money and gave an account similar to other victims.

She met Oliver through Backpage.com and he picked her up in Rockford. Oliver he gave her $40 to buy drugs, then they went back to his home where he became threatening and belligerent, Branum said.

In the basement, he told her, “She was gonna do whatever he said if she was gonna go home,” Branum said.

At one point he gave her a gun and told her to point it at him, when she could not comply with his demands he took it away from her and said, "You’ll never be in control."

Oliver also friended this woman’s mother on Facebook and began threatening that he would rape her daughter again, Branum said.

Prosecutors also played recorded jailhouse phone calls where Oliver is heard saying to an unidentified man: "I should have killed them it would have been easier."

In another phone call, he is heard saying, “What was I supposed to do? Pluck women on the street or go in a schoolyard?”

Defense attorney Jeff Altman said Oliver had no other criminal history and believed he could be rehabilitated.

"He lived a relatively normal life, but for the fact that he frequented the company of prostitutes," Altman said, adding that there is nothing that he has done that indicates he "should be locked up of the rest of his life."

http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/suburbs/mchenry_woodstock_huntley/chi-craigslist-rapist-gets-36-years-in-prison-20140508,0,7601172.story
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izzythepush
 
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Reply Fri 9 May, 2014 01:25 am
@hawkeye10,
hawkeye10 wrote:

Quote:
It's the courts that are doing this, not the government


You are pulling my leg now, I know that you are not this stupid.


You are, and this paranoid nonsense is getting tiresome.
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africanman
 
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Reply Mon 12 May, 2014 02:38 am
Can anyone please sumarise the discussion so far ? :p
BillRM
 
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Reply Mon 12 May, 2014 05:45 am
@africanman,
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Can anyone please sumarise the discussion so far ? :p


Hell no not when it come to a thread with 10,000 postings over a four years period of time
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Sat 17 May, 2014 06:09 pm
@africanman,
No. Too many nuances from many points of view.
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BillRM
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 09:20 am
Just been watching ABC news as how unsafe universities are for women and how 20 percents of all college women had been sexuality assaulted during the four years of their college careers.

If we would stop trying to define sexual assaults as drunken consensual sex under the interesting theory that women unlike men are not responsible for their own sexual actions under the voluntary influence of alcohol and or drugs the real campuses sexual assaults numbers would likely be around one percent or so.

Women who do not get drunk out of their minds are at little risk of having sex that they will regret the next day and can then label as an assault as a result.

Oh it would be nice if we do not also call a kiss that the woman is unhappy about as a sexual assault along with out and out rape.

We are in fact at a 33 years low as far as reported rapes are concern on and off college campuses.

Quote:


http://www.usnews.com/opinion/blogs/economic-intelligence/2013/10/24/statistics-dont-back-up-claims-about-rape-culture

Statistics surrounding sexual assault are notoriously unreliable and inconsistent, primarily because of vague and expansive definitions of what qualifies as sexual assault. Christina Hoff Sommers of the American Enterprise Institute explains that the study often cited as the origin of the "one in five" factoid is an online survey conducted under a grant from the Justice Department. Surveyors employed such a broad definition that "'forced kissing" and even "attempted forced kissing" qualified as sexual assault.

The Bureau of Justice Statistics' "Violent Victimization of College Students" report tells a different and more plausible story about campus culture. During the years surveyed, 1995-2002, the DOJ found that there were six rapes or sexual assaults per thousand per year. Across the nation's four million female college students, that comes to about one victim in forty students. Other DOJ statistics show that the overall rape rate is in sharp decline: since 1995, the estimated rate of female rape or sexual assault victimizations has decreased by about 60 percent.

Of course, there are still far too many college women who are victims of sexual assault. But there's little evidence to support the claim that campus rape is an "epidemic," as Yale student activist Alexandra Brodsky recently wrote in the Guardian.

Bolstered by inflated statistics and alarmist depictions of campus culture, advocates have been successful in initiating policy changes designed to better protect victims of sexual violence. Duke, Swarthmore, Amherst, Emerson and the University of North Carolina are among the many institutions that have recently reviewed and revised their policies. It is not clear that these policies have made campuses safer places for women, but they have certainly made them treacherous places for falsely accused men.

[Read the U.S. News Debate: Should Women Be Allowed to Fight in Combat?]

In January 2010, University of North Dakota student Caleb Warner was accused of sexually assaulting a fellow student. A UND tribunal determined that Warner was guilty of misconduct, and he was swiftly suspended from school and banned from setting foot on campus for three years. Yet the police – presented with the same evidence – were so unconvinced of Warner's guilt that they refused to bring criminal charges against him. Instead, they charged his accuser with filing a false report and issued a warrant for her arrest. Warner's accuser fled town and failed to appear to answer the charges.

Despite these developments, the university repeatedly rejected Warner's requests for a rehearing. Finally, a year and a half later, UND reexamined Warner's case and determined that their finding of guilt was "not substantiated" – but only after the civil liberties group FIRE intervened and launched a national campaign on Warner's behalf.


Unfortunately, Warner is not alone in his grievances. Across the country, students accused of sexual assault are regularly tried before inadequate and unjust campus judiciaries. At most schools, cases of sexual misconduct are decided by a committee of as few as three students, faculty members or administrators. At Swarthmore College, volunteers are now being solicited via email to serve on the Sexual Assault and Harassment Hearing Panel. Such a panel is far more likely to yield gender violence activists than impartial fact finders. In a court of law, we rely on procedural safeguards to ensure unbiased jury selection and due process. But on the college campus, these safeguards have vanished.

[Read the U.S. News Debate: Is There a Republican 'War on Women'?]

What's more, campus judiciaries operate under a dangerously low standard of proof for sexual assault cases, thanks to federal mandates. Since April 2011, the Department of Education has required institutions to consider cases of sexual misconduct under a "preponderance of evidence" standard (rather than a higher "clear and convincing" standard, which was commonly used prior to the new guidelines). This means that if a majority of committee members believe it is just slightly more likely than not that a sexual assault occurred, they must side with the accuser.

Sexual assault is a horrific offense, and institutions must do all they can to protect victims. It is admirable that activists like Chadwick are trying to fight it. However, a false accusation of rape can also have devastating, life-altering consequences. Universities have an obligation to protect the rights of all students – both victims of sexual assault and the accused. They must stop responding to questionable statistics and abstract claims about a rape culture and instead focus on ensuring basic fairness for all students.

Meanwhile, advocates for due process, rules of evidence, basic justice and true gender equality need to speak louder than the "f*ckrapeculture" alarmists.

Caroline Kitchens is a researcher at the American Enterprise Institute.

hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 10:30 am
@BillRM,
The storyline that universities are overrun with sexual assaults is undermined by the fact that todays youth are the best behaved generation in memory, as is documented with crime stats. how is it when things are better than they have been in many decades do we have alarmists running around saying that we have a public safety crisis that needs attention "RIGHT NOW!"?
izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 10:54 am
@hawkeye10,
When should we take action? Your argument could be used to perpetrate slavery. "Slaves are being better treated today than ever before, so why should we free them now?"

Maybe things have improved, but we've only recently become aware of the scale of the problem. Jimmy Savile's career in abuse is astonishing, and it only became apparent after his death.

We need to take action now, because now is the time we finally realised the extent of what was/is going on.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 11:08 am
@izzythepush,
We need to take action now because the feminists have earned a poor reputation and are desperate to drum up some project to justify their continued existance. Saving the modern university girls, the most spoiled and advantaged females ever to walk the earth, seems to be the project of choice.
firefly
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 12:09 pm
@hawkeye10,
What "feminists"?

The issue of campus sexual assaults, and how they are addressed, is currently being spearheaded by the White House and members of the U.S. Senate.

This has to do with the reporting of crimes and their disposition.

Your continuig obsession with "feminists"--murky bogeymen who you never specifically identify--is but another example of your paranoia and your fear and resentment of women.

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firefly
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 12:38 pm
@BillRM,
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If we would stop trying to define sexual assaults as drunken consensual sex...

No, that's not how sexual assaults are defined. That's how you try to deny the reality of sexual assaults.

"Drunken consensual sex" is an oxymoron. A severely intoxicated individual is legally considered too cognitively impaired to give fully aware cognizant consent. They may also be physically unable to resist. Alcohol is an anesthetic, it depresses the functioning of the central nervous system. Therefore, a "drunken" individual--someone you describe as " drunk out of their minds"-- is not legally considered as able to consent. Sex without consent is sexual assault/rape.

Are men too dumb to understand that? Are men too lacking in self control to abide by such laws? I think not, certainly not the overwhelming majority of men. But clearly, you are one of the very small percentage of men who are too dumb to understand that, and one of those who would hope that either your victim wouldn't recall her assault, because of her intoxicated state, or others wouldn't believe her, so you could evade the consequences of your assaultive behavior.

This is from the article you posted
Quote:

Of course, there are still far too many college women who are victims of sexual assault...

Sexual assault is a horrific offense, and institutions must do all they can to protect victims.


Obviously, you fail to realize that.



hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 12:45 pm
@firefly,
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Are men too lacking in self control to abide by such laws?
this man has no interest in facilitating this much government control of the sexual choices my woman and I make for ourselves. Drunk sex can be fantastic, and I have no desire to deprive myself of it.
BillRM
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 12:48 pm
@hawkeye10,
Hawkeye they have even have the nerve to libel one in four college males by claiming that they admitted in a survey that they would cheerfully rape their female classmates if they was convict that they could get away with it.

I been trying to get the details of this survey but without any luck so far and all I can find is claimed that such a survey exist in articles.

There is one hell of an anti-male nonsense in the feminists movement where males as a whole are seen as hormones driven creatures that are barely and I mean barely held in check by the fear of the law.

Sorry the claim in not 25 percent but 35 percents of college men would be rapists if they could get away with it.

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BillRM
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 12:57 pm
@hawkeye10,
Quote:
Drunk sex can be fantastic , and I have no desire to deprive myself of it.


I and my wife both agree that every once in the blue moon "drunken" sex can be enjoyable and somehow I do not see how that is any business of the society.

It all center on the idea that women are children when it come to sex and therefore women do not have the right to get drunk and then consent to sex while drunk and if they do then if they have an regret afterward they can cry rape.
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glitterbag
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 01:07 pm
@africanman,
africanman wrote:

Can anyone please sumarise the discussion so far ? :p


Let me take a stab at condensing this for you. BillRM and Hawkeye firmly believe that any female over the age of 8, is in desperate need of having a brute penetrate their genital areas. All these poor guys are languishing in prison for accommodating the unholy urges of this demographic, also known as women of any age. They believe that unless they are wearing chastity belts they are fair game. If their fathers or husbands were smart, they would make sure their daughters and wives we constantly protected with armed bodyguards, but only eunuchs. Exactly how they know this is unknowable. That's something stored away in their fevered imagination. Most of the population is horrified that such things happen. I think that sums it up. This conversation was started in 2010 and I don't know how it got legs.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 01:13 pm
@glitterbag,
glitterbag wrote:

africanman wrote:

Can anyone please sumarise the discussion so far ? :p


Let me take a stab at condensing this for you. BillRM and Hawkeye firmly believe that any female over the age of 8, is in desperate need of having a brute penetrate their genital areas. All these poor guys are languishing in prison for accommodating the unholy urges of this demographic, also known as women of any age. They believe that unless they are wearing chastity belts they are fair game. If their fathers or husbands were smart, they would make sure their daughters and wives we constantly protected with armed bodyguards, but only eunuchs. Exactly how they know this is unknowable. That's something stored away in their fevered imagination. Most of the population is horrified that such things happen. I think that sums it up. This conversation was started in 2010 and I don't know how it got legs.


Leave it to a NSA employee to not understand that some people find the increasing government control of our sex lives to be alarming......
 

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