@hawkeye10,
As I said before...
You are one pathetic dude. Why not just be honest and say your main fear is that the government will interfere with your BDSM activities, and, with regard to those activities, you don't want to be hampered by any conventional notions of "consent"--not even the conventional notions of "consent" within the BDSM community.
This is all about your own deviant sexual preferences--deviant, by your own admission. It really has nothing to do with the current sexual assault laws, which really interfere with no one's sexual interactions with another consenting adult. Except that you fear your own sexual behaviors cross the line of those laws. Letting you set the standard for sexual assault laws would be like letting a pyromaniac write the criminal arson laws.
Your big concern is that "feminists" or the government won't see BDSM slaves as consenting, or that people won't be able to consent to torture--things like that. You haven't got the slightest interest in this topic beyond how it directly affects you, and your deviant modes of satisfaction. So, you're preoccupied with various paranoid conspiracy theories, comprised of all these shadowy people you actually can't name or quote. who are all huddled together somewhere plotting to deprive you of your sexual pursuits. And your extra-marital BDSM sex life seems to be the only thing you have going for yourself.
No one gives a damn about your personal sex life, except you. The government, and the feminists, and everyone else in their right mind, has more important matters to focus on. You are so consumed with yourself you can't see you really don't matter--not even enough for anyone to come after you--and all the crap you post matters even less. You're not provocative, or discussing any taboo subjects, you're a self-deluded bore who has very little to say of any real interest.