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Hey, Can A Woman "Ask To Get Raped"?

 
 
firefly
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 01:47 pm
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The New York Times
February 1, 2011
Court Counselor Sentenced to Four Years for Sex Assaults
By JOHN ELIGON

A juvenile-justice counselor who almost got a no-jail plea deal last year in the sexual assaults of three young girls under his care was sentenced Tuesday to four years in prison, the maximum allowed, after a jury convicted him on sexual assault charges last month.

Before imposing her sentence, Justice Carol Berkman of State Supreme Court in Manhattan said that the case of the counselor, Tony Simmons, “cries out for the maximum.”

Mr. Simmons, 47, was acquitted of two counts of third-degree rape, but convicted of two counts of third-degree criminal sexual act, a felony on the same level as the rape charges. Jurors also convicted him of 10 misdemeanor sexual-abuse charges for preying upon two girls, ages 15 and 16, in the Family Court building in Lower Manhattan.

Mr. Simmons, looking disheveled in an untucked button-down shirt and yellow vest, simply shook his head “no” when Justice Berkman asked if he had anything to say before she passed sentence.

His lawyer, Gregory J. Watford, asked the judge to sentence him on the low end of the scale.

But Evan Krutoy, an assistant district attorney, said that Mr. Simmons deserved a harsh sentence for “gaming” the system.

“When you manipulate the system and then you lose, well, it seems to me that there’s a consequence that you have to factor in,” Mr. Krutoy said.

Last year, Mr. Simmons accepted a deal of 10 years’ probation in exchange for pleading guilty to the charges. But after outcries by the Manhattan district attorney, Cyrus R. Vance Jr., and victims’ advocates, a judge in State Supreme Court in Manhattan withdrew the offer.

The judge, Justice Cassandra M. Mullen, said she took the deal off the table because Mr. Simmons had shown no remorse in interviews with the Probation Department and had even said that one of the girls had been flirting with him.
http://cityroom.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/02/01/family-court-counselor-sentenced-to-four-years-for-sex-assaults/?partner=rss&emc=rss
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 01:54 pm
@firefly,
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Last year, Mr. Simmons accepted a deal of 10 years’ probation in exchange for pleading guilty to the charges. But after outcries by the Manhattan district attorney, Cyrus R. Vance Jr., and victims’ advocates, a judge in State Supreme Court in Manhattan withdrew the offer.

The judge, Justice Cassandra M. Mullen, said she took the deal off the table because Mr. Simmons had shown no remorse in interviews with the Probation Department and had even said that one of the girls had been flirting with him.
Clearly we see here yet another woman lying...Judges really should try to resist the temptation to lie.
firefly
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 01:58 pm
@hawkeye10,
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. I know that guys get convicted of rape for coercion, that is all I need to know as am not defending them. I also know that the law is moving in that direction because smart people tell me so


How do you know that "guys get convicted of rape for coercion" if you are ignorant of the exact state laws used to convict them, and how "coercion" is defined in those laws, and when these convictions took place?

You also "know" there is a secret vast "feminist" conspiracy which covertly controls all sexual assault law and which is plotting to control all men and take over the government. Laughing
http://www.theworldsprophecy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/paranoia.png
So, I'm not sure we can just trust the things you "know", Hawkeye.
firefly
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 01:59 pm
@hawkeye10,
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Clearly we see here yet another woman lying...Judges really should try to resist the temptation to lie.

What is your evidence that the judge was lying?
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 02:07 pm
@firefly,
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How do you know that "guys get convicted of rape for coercion" if you are ignorant of the exact state laws used to convict them, and how "coercion" is defined in those laws, and when these convictions took place
this is that same argument you use when you say that those who are not feminist scholars can not talk about feminism. You are claiming that only the experts should be allowed to speak. I am somewhat amazed by your assertion that you are not aware that this pig will not fly.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 02:33 pm
@hawkeye10,
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I suspect that they will be very slow to act here, as the Duke administration
Bill, now I notice your post about Duke's sexual assault policy......so I am wrong, the admin at Duke does not get it. Too bad, they were once a half way decent school. If I were an 18 YO boy or girl I would have no interest in attending such a police state school where my right to freedom is so disrespected. I certainly would not expect to gain an education at such a place.

My daughter actually applied there last year, but now she is glad that she did not get in (for other reasons). I am certainly glad she did not end up at such an oppressive school.
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firefly
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 03:15 pm
@hawkeye10,
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this is that same argument you use when you say that those who are not feminist scholars can not talk about feminism. You are claiming that only the experts should be allowed to speak.

No, what I said was that you appear to be ignorant of feminism, since you cannot cite any current prominent feminists you feel are influencing what you call "sex law", nor do you appear to have read any of their publications. Considering you've been ranting about these alleged "feminists" for over 385 pages in this thread, one might expect you to be familiar with them, and their work. But, since you also criticize rape laws you are unfamiliar with, I guess you feel that opinions need not be informed by actual knowledge--or substance.

By all means, keep speaking. Keep displaying your ignorance.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 03:25 pm
@firefly,
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By all means, keep speaking. Keep displaying your ignorance
I feel no need to either defend nor demonstrate my knowledge of the subject matter. What I say either resonates with people or it does not..if their knowledge and life experience supports my position then they will join me, and I have full faith and confidence that those who hold my position will increasingly see our ranks swell. We are already stronger than we have ever been, and as the lunacy that is American sex law wrecks its havoc we will get stronger. That said, support for my position is well documented in this thread. You can rant all you want about how I am a nut and nothing I say makes sense and how all most no one agrees with me...I know better, I am not susceptible to your lies and/or delusion.
BillRM
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 04:06 pm
@firefly,
Well Firefly it would seem you are to0 must of a coward to tell us all if you would like to see the laws change so men could be charge with rape for withdrawing or threatening to withdraw some form of support from a woman if she will not consent to having sex with him.

So is a man who gain the consent from his girlfriend for sex under the threat of her being homeless just a jerk or is he a rapist under you ideal rape law Firefly?

Strange that up to this point you had ran away from this question.

firefly
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 04:53 pm
@hawkeye10,
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I feel no need to either defend nor demonstrate my knowledge of the subject matter.

Thank goodness--because you'd be skating on very thin ice. Laughing

And you certainly haven't demonstrated any knowledge of the subject matter--what you call "the lunacy of American sex law". In fact, I can't recall your ever addressing a specific state sexual assault law you felt reflected "lunacy" of any kind.

Your paranoid rants have mainly been about "feminists" and not the actual state sexual assault laws. And your main gripe appears to be the increasing power of women in society, rather than anything specific in any state sexual assault law. While it is difficult to discern what your goal actually is, since you want to change laws you actually have no first hand knowledge of, you do seem to want to dis-empower women as much as possible, particularly in the bedroom, mainly so that your own carnal desires can find expression without having interference from a partner. And I'm sure you can find other selfish, adolescent, narcissistic men who will share such feelings. Advocate weakening the property laws, and I'm sure you will find the support of thieves.

It must apparently give you some false sense of comfort to have a scapegoat, such as "feminists", to attack and blame for your feelings of inadequacy and impotency, and, who can serve as the definable enemy you feel poses a threat to your need for increasingly deviant modes of sexual gratification, but you are seriously kidding yourself if you think only "feminists" support current sexual assault laws. I daresay that you can't find very many women, or men, who feel that unwanted sexual contact, contact to which they have clearly objected, should not be considered an illegal sexual assault. Most people want such unwanted, non consensual sexual contact to remain a crime. So, why you obsessively rant about "feminists" is somewhat puzzling, except it allows you to distill your own sense of threat down to manageable proportions, sort of like tilting at windmills. To the extent that your sexual activities involve a partner, that partner has the right to draw boundary lines, based on consent, that you have no right to cross, even if you disagree with those lines, or resent them. And, it's not just "feminists"--by a long-shot--that support that right.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 04:58 pm
@BillRM,
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Well Firefly it would seem you are to0 must of a coward to tell us all if you would like to see the laws change so men could be charge with rape for withdrawing or threatening to withdraw some form of support from a woman if she will not consent to having sex with him
other than saying that she wants men beat upon and that she wants something called "sexual assault" which she will not define ended she is not willing to take a position. She yaks a lot, but there is no there there.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 05:01 pm
@firefly,
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To the extent that your sexual activities involve a partner, that partner has the right to draw boundary lines, based on consent, that you have no right to cross, even if you disagree with those lines, or resent them
Had you defined "consent" that statement would have some meaning, as it is it is gobbly goop.
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firefly
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 05:03 pm
@BillRM,
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So is a man who gain the consent from his girlfriend for sex under the threat of her being homeless just a jerk or is he a rapist under you ideal rape law Firefly?

Spare us the ugly anecdotes, from your own life, of the desperate, homeless women who would have sex with you only if you provided them with shelter, and only when you threatened to take that shelter away.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 05:04 pm
@firefly,
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And I'm sure you can find other selfish, adolescent, narcissistic men who will share such feelings.
yadda, yadda, yadda. It is women that Prosecutors work to keep of sexual assault juries, not men. It is your rants that are disconnected from reality, not mine.
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Ionus
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 05:04 pm
@firefly,
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Ionus seems to have little familiarity with the rape laws of Australia, where he lives. He has yet to cite a specific rape law from his country and explain exactly why he considers the law to be in need of change and what that change should be. Instead, his posts are mostly insults and put-downs of whatever others say and post, and they are heavily laced with vulgarities and blatantly sexism. That does not disguise his ignorance of the sexual assault laws of Australia, it simply allows him to display his boundless capacity for extreme nastiness.
Gee, you've changed. Whay happened to all your nasty little photos, like the three stooges where you insulted anyone who had the nerve to disagree with the great U ? If you want to argue the definition of laws, unless you are a trial judge and have access to their proof briefs, I dont see how that can contribute.

Typical Libby Lobby approach from you.....deny being a Libby, accuse men of women bashing, watch as stupid men run to help the poor poor pitiful woman and claim you are doing it to help rape victims.

The majority of rape victims are men, darling.
Ionus
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 05:06 pm
@Intrepid,
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YOU have children?
Are you still denying you are a child molester but saying I am a rapist ?
Ionus
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 05:15 pm
@Intrepid,
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I would, therefore, have to assume that your hate is manifested in your need to consider that force is the only way to be intimate with a woman.
And I have to assume that anyone who is that much of a suckup to women is really after their kids.

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I consider what the law has already provided to be rape.
Laws designed by a minority to achieve greater power.

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The fact that you refer to women as animals is quite telling of your sense of worth
Do you mean like "male chauvinistic pigs "? When I said "Magnificent animals really, women", I was referring to your condescending 'woman cant do anything for themselves' approach...they need a man like you to protect them dont they ?

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The fact that you consider lying to require rational thought would also be fodder for the mental health profession.
You are a clown. Rational thought IS a prerequisite for lying. Yet another topic you know nothing about but are prepared to mouth off about.

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You, sir, are the insult to woman and also an insult to the men of this world. At least the sane ones.
Unbelievable ! The only sane men are those who protect women no matter what the cost.....like you for example, no doubt. You're a real man arent you ?
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Ionus
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 05:22 pm
@Arella Mae,
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Seriously, what sane and rational person would want to have sex with anyone they had to pressure into it in any way?
I assume you are referring to the women who say things like " I am not having sex with you because you didnt mow the lawn today like I told you to".
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Sane and rational people know the difference between rape and non-rape.
Do they ? Where do they draw the line ?

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It is my opinion that any man or woman, for that matter, that must somehow force another person into having sex with them, is insecure and will scream the loudest when stricter laws concerning rape are spoken of.
Or they will not risk drawing attention to themselves and will continue to rape.

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Why would anyone be upset about a law if they have no intention of ever breaking it?
As in whites protesting against apartheid ?

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The ones that boast the loudest about how "good" they are........................were always the duds.
I bow to your experience. Clearly you have had more sexual partners then all of us put together. Maybe that is your reason for arguing here.....low self esteem from being a sex addict leaves you with no choice but to claim rape so you can feel better about yourself.
Ionus
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 05:23 pm
@Arella Mae,
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We have been discussing STATE laws.
Ahhh...dummy ? We have been discussing rape laws.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 1 Feb, 2011 05:30 pm
@firefly,
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While it is difficult to discern what your goal actually is, since you want to change laws you actually have no first hand knowledge


You have brass balls, I gotta give you that, considering that I showed beyond a doubt that I understand my state laws better than you do. Or maybe it shows your delusion, it gets difficult to see with you where the separation is between the lies and the delusional/fantasy space that your head seems to reside in.
 

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