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Hey, Can A Woman "Ask To Get Raped"?

 
 
BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:06 pm
@firefly,
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BillRM (and Hawkeye) would like everyone to pretend that rape is an insignificant crime and that rape laws were designed by a man-hating coven of "feminists" to ensnare totally innocent men and toss them in prison. Their misogynistic views, several hundred pages worth, have been put forth by them as reasons to have the rape laws abolished. They favor decriminalizing rape unless extreme force is used and the victim is beaten to a bloody pulp to demonstrate her resistance. Unfortunately, most females are raped by someone known to them, and most of these rapes do not require extreme force--so BillRM and Hawkeye would like these victims to be considered fair, and legal, prey for rapists. In a thread about rape, they have been pro-rape advocates.


It is a damn shame you was not alive and living in Germany in the 1930s/40s as the Nazis would had love your abilities with the big lie technique.

For the one thousand times rape is the used of physical force or the threat of such forces or the drugging of a woman behind her back or having sex with a woman who is not aware and able to react with her surroundings.

It does not require extreme force of any kind it does however take some kind of threat of force at least.

If she is free to get up and walk away without fear of physical harm of any kind then it is not rape.
firefly
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:11 pm
@BillRM,
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Yes, we do have cases of statute rapes here and we surely need to punish him, however he was zero threat to young women/girls who was not looking for sexual hookups in the first place


So this man was zero threat to underage females who were not looking for "sexual hookups"? You see nothing wrong with the behavior of the adult man? His behavior is justified because you persist in seeing these females as actively seeking sexual contact with him--despite the total lack of evidence that was the case? He lured these females--he enticed them to meet him as a friend--and then he plied them with pot and booze so he could have sex with them. This man's behavior went way beyond simple statutory rape.

Stop blaming the victims of rape. Total responsibility for a rape rests with the rapist. All rapists are a threat. This man deserves the prison cell he will be occupying.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:12 pm
@BillRM,
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If she is free to get up and walk away without fear of physical harm of any kind then it is not rape
Actually, it now is. So is it sometimes when a woman actively participates and never objects, that is when the sex act was clearly a collaboration and not an invasion, if the process did not meet the legal standard...if the man did not make sure that the woman knew what was going to happen, knew the ramifications of what would happen, and knew that she was of legally sound mind (not chemically impared) thus her opinion mattered and she had ownership of her body.
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BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:19 pm
@firefly,
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You see nothing wrong with the behavior of the adult man? His behavior is justified because you persist in seeing these females as actively seeking sexual contact with him--despite the total lack of evidence that was the case? He lured these females--he enticed them to meet him as a friend--and then he plied them with pot and booze so he could have sex with them. This man's behavior went way beyond simple statutory rape.


Firefly what part of my statement that he should be punish do you not understand?

Beyond statutory rape Firefly????/?

That the only crime he is charge with at the moment.

I guess they could add providing alcohol and drugs to minors but that seem to be a very secondary charge compare to statutory rape and I see little be be gain by adding them to the charge sheet.

However I am sure the judge will take that into account at the sentencing.

Also unless you had seen the emails back and fore between the young women and this guy I do not see how you can claimed that he lured or did not lured them to meet him as a friend or as a lover.

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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:33 pm
@firefly,
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Total responsibility for a rape rests with the rapist.
and with those who set the definition of rape, which would be the lawmakers. Sometimes the victim is heavily involved in setting up permissive conditions for rape and occasionally even attempt to provoke rape. These women don't deserve to be criminally prosecuted for their ways, but they certainly do need to be dealt with.
firefly
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:33 pm
@BillRM,
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It does not require extreme force of any kind it does however take some kind of threat of force at least.

If she is free to get up and walk away without fear of physical harm of any kind then it is not rape.


Have you ever tried to get up and walk away when a heavier person is on top of you--thrusting his penis in you, or about to penetrate you?

You understand neither the facts of rape nor the many circumstances in which different types of rapes occur. Rape depends on consent, not on force or threat--and non consensual sexual intercourse has always been considered rape.

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For the one thousand times rape is the used of physical force or the threat of such forces or the drugging of a woman behind her back or having sex with a woman who is not aware and able to react with her surroundings.


You don't get to invent your own limited definition of rape. The state defines rape--state legislatures write and pass the rape laws--these are the elected representatives of the community, and these laws reflect the will of the community. The overwhelming majority of the public isn't complaining about the current rape laws, and they abide by them.

The 92 year old woman, who was raped in her nursing home bed by the 17 year old kitchen worker who brought her a cup of tea on Christmas morning (which actual news item was posted in this thread}, would not fit your definition of rape--the woman was aware, able to get out of her bed, and no extreme force, or threat of force, was required. That was a very real rape--and the young male was sentenced to time in a very real prison.

If she hasn't consented, or is unable to consent, the act is rape. If she says, "No", the act is rape.

Responding to you is a complete waste of time.

hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:36 pm
@firefly,
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Their misogynistic views, several hundred pages worth, have been put forth by them as reasons to have the rape laws abolished
Lying again I see...my view is that the definition of rape needs to revert back to what it was, force over non-consent. I am advocating for reform of rape laws, not the abolishment of them, as you know full well.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:40 pm
@firefly,
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No, there is no indication that these girls--most of whom were about 15--were looking for a sexual encounter with this man.
so what are you saying here, that one should not be able to proposition for sex unless one knows that the person they are speaking with is looking for sex? Sounds like, and it is more proof that you are out to shut down the practice of the sexual arts, in spite of your denials, because almost no sex would ever happen under your desired conditions that must be in place to make sex lawful.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:44 pm
@firefly,
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Rape depends on consent, not on force or threat--and non consensual sexual intercourse has always been considered rape.

Here you are being purposefully misleading, because as you know in old law the sex was not lawful only if one person demonstrated that they did not want the sex, now it is not lawful unless both people indicate that they do want the sex.....along with a host of other new conditions, new conditions that are rapidly multiplying.

Anything to win your point right Firefly? The truth is expendable for you.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:46 pm
@firefly,
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Responding to you is a complete waste of time.

Your responding to anyone in any debate is a waste of time until and unless you are willing to embrace honesty.
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firefly
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 01:50 pm
@hawkeye10,
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Sometimes the victim is heavily involved in setting up permissive conditions for rape

Absolutely untrue. The only permissive condition for sexual intercourse is when consent is present.
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Sometimes the victim...occasionally even attempt to provoke rape

Your statement is a classic example of victim blame--that she was "asking for it"--she "provoked" it--or attempted to "provoke it".

You just cannot accept that full responsibility for the act of rape rests with the person who commits the act--the rapist. You are trying to shift blame onto the the victim. No matter what she does, without consent, the act of sexual intercourse is rape.

If you wear an expensive watch, are you trying to provoke someone into mugging you? Who would be responsible for the theft of your watch, you or the mugger?
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 02:00 pm
@firefly,
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Absolutely untrue. The only permissive condition for sexual intercourse is when consent is present.
You might as well be saying that "Absolutely untrue. The only permissive condition for sexual intercourse is when odlsmrsus is present" because you will not tell us what you think consent means, and which level of consent must be reached for sex to become lawful.

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You just cannot accept that full responsibility for the act of rape rests with the person who commits the act--the rapist
I don't accept it because it is not true..we are all interconnected. I believe that at times individuals need to be punished for their misdeeds, but it is never ALL their fault, and we have gone way over good sense in punishing individuals for sexual mishaps and misdeeds.
firefly
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 02:08 pm
@hawkeye10,
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Sounds like, and it is more proof that you are out to shut down the practice of the sexual arts


Rape is not "the practice of the sexual arts"--although, for you, rape might be included in how you practice the "sexual arts".

We are talking about an adult man, a sexual predator, who has been convicted on several felony counts of rape with underage girls he plied with pot and booze to facilitate their acquiescence.

No sexual assault/rape laws limit consenting sexual intercourse. 15 year olds cannot legally consent to such activity. Plying them with intoxicants, to facilitate the act, is an additional, and serious, crime.

We already know you approve of adult men having sex with 15 year old partners. Rolling Eyes
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almost no sex would ever happen under your desired conditions that must be in place to make sex lawful

That's probably because you aren't able to envision having sexual intercourse with consent--"freely willing, knowing agreement"--from your partner. Most people have no problem limiting their sexual activities to consenting partners.



BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 02:12 pm
@firefly,
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Have you ever tried to get up and walk away when a heavier person is on top of you--thrusting his penis in you, or about to penetrate you?


First that would be using force if he did not get up and allow her to leave and how did she get into that position without him using force before he got into her? She change her mind after intercourse had started?

In any case the state had been redefining the crime of rape and most of the population is not yet aware of that fact.

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The 92 year old woman, who was raped in her nursing home bed by the 17 year old kitchen worker who brought her a cup of tea on Christmas morning (which actual news item was posted in this thread}, would not fit your definition of rape--the woman was aware, able to get out of her bed, and no extreme force, or threat of force, was required. That was a very real rape--and the young male was sentenced to time in a very real prison.


Second if a 92 year old woman was of sound mind then she had as must right to have sex as anyone else and if not then she would fall under not being aware of her surroundings.

So I am assuming that there was a court judgment somewhere along the way that she was not of sound mind otherwise even under your new age defining of rape the worst that could had happen is that he lost his job.

Or did you guys somehow secretly added a cut off age where no one is allow to consent to sex?
firefly
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 02:14 pm
@hawkeye10,
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Here you are being purposefully misleading, because as you know in old law the sex was not lawful only if one person demonstrated that they did not want the sex, now it is not lawful unless both people indicate that they do want the sex

It's still the case that what makes intercourse "rape" is that the victim was non consenting--that's the "old" law as well as the current law.

Obviously, the rapist indicates he wants to have sex. The issue is whether he has the consent of the other person for the act. That's not a "new condition".
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 02:22 pm
@firefly,
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We are talking about an adult man, a sexual predator, who has been convicted on several felony counts of rape with underage girls he plied with pot and booze to facilitate their acquiescence
I was talking about your indication that you feel that if a person who was not looking for sex ended up having sex that something might be amiss. Sometimes we find sex when we are looking for it, sometimes we find it when we are not....

You are going one step further then the current standard, that a man should not proposition a woman for sex unless he has some reason to think that she is open to the advance. Even our current standard is whack, because I should be free to seek sexual partnership at will, if a woman does not want me she already has a remedy, she can say no, there is no crime in my asking (so we all used to believe, but we are certainly getting to the point where asking for sex is sometimes a criminal act aren't we)

There is a big step between open to a proposition for sex and actively seeking sex, one that I am gather that you are wanting to make

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Most people have no problem limiting their sexual activities to consenting partners.

actually, I highly suspect most men are hidden rapists under your definition of consent, but given that you will not tell us I cant prove it.....likely the reason you will not tell us is because you know that you would lose what ever following you have if it were ever communicated to them how far you want to go in criminalizing sex.
firefly
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 02:28 pm
@hawkeye10,
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because you will not tell us what you think consent means, and which level of consent must be reached for sex to become lawful.

Knock off the bullshit. I stated I accept the definition of "consent" given in the sexual assault laws of the state of Washington--where you live--and I posted it a few pages back. Go read it.

In fact, in that same post I exposed your idiotic statement that no state has a definite definition of "consent" in their sexual assault laws--a clear definition of what is meant by "consent" in those laws. The state you live in has such a definition, as do all other states I am aware of. So, you are either lying or ignorant--take your pick--when you say your state hasn't defined "consent" for sexual intercourse. And you are definitely lying when you say I haven't defined it.

You really have nothing germane to say on the topic of this thread. Either you engage in your paranoid conspiracy theories about "feminists, or you blame victims for their own rapes and make up excuses for those who rape them, or you spout total bullshit and try to attack me.

You have become a total bore. And that's the best reason for ignoring you.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 02:30 pm
@firefly,
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The issue is whether he has the consent of the other person for the act. That's not a "new condition".
the old meaning for consent only vaguely resembles the new meaning, we are not talking about the same thing. According to you if I went back in time to 1930 and told the people of that time that I like talking on the telephone in 2011 and they said that they liked talking on the phone too then we would be in perfect agreement. Obviously this is BS....you are playing your word games again, this time leaving a word undefined so that you can make it mean what ever you need to make it mean to make your argument work.
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firefly
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 02:35 pm
@BillRM,
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Second if a 92 year old woman was of sound mind then she had as must right to have sex as anyone else and if not then she would fall under not being aware of her surroundings.

So I am assuming that there was a court judgment somewhere along the way that she was not of sound mind otherwise even under your new age defining of rape the worst that could had happen is that he lost his job.



No, dimwit. The woman WAS RAPED. She was of perfectly sound mind. The sexual intercourse was non consensual--she did not want it. He simply got on top of her AND RAPED HER.

You don't "lose your job" for RAPING someone--you go to prison. He was convicted OF RAPE and sent to prison.

The question is whether you are of sound mind. Your inability to accurately comprehend what you read raises serious doubts about that.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 28 Jan, 2011 02:38 pm
@firefly,
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No, dimwit. The woman WAS RAPED. She was of perfectly sound mind. The sexual intercourse was non consensual--she did not want it. He simply got on top of her AND RAPED HER
The definition of rape is now so broad and fluid that you need to write a paragraph each time you use the word so that we can all know what you are talking about in this particular instance. The word "rape" is now nearly useless...concretely all it means is sex that is not approved by the state.
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