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Hey, Can A Woman "Ask To Get Raped"?

 
 
firefly
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 11:52 am
@Arella Mae,
You are right, Arella Mae, most rapists are serial rapists, and I am sure that includes men who date rape and are acquaintance rapists as well.

The rapes of extremely elderly women are horrific, and quite often these women are murdered as well.

That was the case in this instance. This man entered a guilty plea yesterday and spared the state the expense of a trial. He is also a serial rapist. Fortunately, he will not walk the streets again.

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S.E. Pa. man admits raping, killing neighbor, 84
(AP)

A suburban Philadelphia man accused of raping and killing his 84-year-old neighbor two years ago has pleaded guilty.

Sixty-three-year-old Billy Williams pleaded guilty Tuesday morning in the September 2008 slaying of Jane Morgan inside her apartment in Upper Darby, just outside Philadelphia. He was immediately sentenced to 30 to 60 years in prison.

Prosecutors say Williams' DNA was found under the victim's fingernails after she was discovered dead in her apartment when she failed to answer the door for friend.

Williams, who previously served time in a 1980 rape case, lived in the same apartment building and worked in its grocery store. He had been scheduled to go to trial in October.
http://www.timesleader.com/news/ap?articleID=5234031
firefly
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 12:01 pm
@Arella Mae,
You might find this article on recidivism and rehabilitation of rapists interesting

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Lievore, Denise --- "Thoughts on Recidivism and Rehabilitation of Rapists" [2005] UNSWLawJl 18; (2005) 28(1) University of New South Wales Law Journal 293

I RISK FACTORS FOR RECIDIVISM
II SEX OFFENDER TREATMENT PROGRAMS
III VISIBLE AND HIDDEN SEX OFFENDERS: IMPLICATIONS FOR CRIMINAL JUSTICE
IV CONCLUSION
THOUGHTS ON RECIDIVISM AND REHABILITATION OF RAPISTS
DENISE LIEVORE[*]

The notion that sex crimes are perpetrated by a small number of habitual, sexually deviant offenders, usually strangers, conflicts with the fact that most victims are sexually assaulted by someone they know. As sex offenders often target one type of victim and because there are somewhat different processes operating for the various subgroups of sex offenders, this discussion focuses primarily on rapists, that is, men who perpetrate sexual assault predominantly against adults and, specifically, women. While persistent sex offenders are thought to comprise a small proportion of the total sex offender population, they have a substantial impact on public attitudes and policy decisions, since the more severe and highly publicised sexual assaults are often associated with stranger or gang rapists, offenders who are commonly regarded as more dangerous, less treatable and constituting a greater risk to the community.

Given the hidden nature of sex offending, it is difficult to ascertain the prevalence of sex offenders in the community, let alone recidivism rates. The international research literature shows that rates of sexual recidivism are low relative to other offence types. However, official figures are known to underestimate the prevalence and incidence of repeat offending, largely because they are based on the recidivistic activities of visible (ie, convicted or incarcerated) sex offenders and due to a range of methodological issues. Most sex offenders are not reconvicted for sexual offences: while a small group specialises in sex crime, a larger group continues a general criminal career and can be described as versatile offenders.[1] Among rapists, there is considerable continuity between sexual, general and violent offending. Many have extensive general criminal histories and some are more likely to be reconvicted for violent rather than sexual offences. Australian studies have found that rates of sexual recidivism range from as low as two per cent in some samples to as high as 16 per cent in others, with rates of violent recidivism ranging from 11 per cent to 31 per cent, and for any type of offence from 41 per cent to 61 per cent.[2]

It is not clear whether low rates of sexual recidivism point to rehabilitation, lack of opportunity to reoffend, or non-detection of subsequent sex crimes. Visible sex offenders often admit to committing multiple offences over long periods of time[3] and, because there is a strong relationship between the frequency of offending and the likelihood of being reconvicted at some point, it is not possible to assume that most released sex offenders who are not reconvicted are undetected repeat offenders. The available evidence suggests that most sex offenders are not at risk of sexual recidivism, but it is necessary to identify those who are and, in addition, risk assessment of sex offenders ought to be a core practice within correctional systems.

I RISK FACTORS FOR RECIDIVISM
The propensity to reoffend sexually is mediated by a broad range of developmental, psychosocial, environmental and physiological influences which are viewed as functionally interdependent processes. There is no single cause of sex offending but there are a number of static and dynamic risk factors that are associated with recidivism.[4] Static risk factors are relatively fixed and include variables such as the offender’s sex, race or ethnicity, age, criminal history and relationship to the victim. Dynamic risk factors are open to change with treatment and are also known as criminogenic needs. They include variables as diverse as substance abuse, general social skills, sexual arousal patterns and the quality of relationships.

Sex offenders are similar to the general offender population in terms of demographic, psychosocial and criminal history variables. Most are young, single, white males, although men from Indigenous and ethnic minority groups are over-represented among visible sex offenders. Rapists come from all socio-economic backgrounds but are often socially, economically, educationally and occupationally disadvantaged. The fact that some risk factors are common for general, violent and sexual offending has led to the view that rapists are predominantly violent offenders who also offend sexually,[5] but current knowledge indicates that a somewhat different set of processes contributes to sexual recidivism.

Specific risk factors for sexual recidivism include: age (youth); marital status (single); a prior generalist history of offending; and a specific history of sex offending, especially early onset of offending and engaging in a range of sexual crimes. Sexual offending is not a developmental stage that adolescents ‘grow out of’. Instead, some ‘grow into’ recidivist sex offenders over their life span unless their behaviours and beliefs are corrected. Other risk factors include childhood sexual and physical victimisation, failure to complete a sex offender treatment program and indicators of psychological maladjustment, such as antisocial behaviour, substance use or abuse and anger problems. It should be noted, however, most rapists do not meet the diagnostic criteria of major mental disorders.[6]

Sexual deviance is a risk factor for sexual recidivism, but aggression is a more salient risk factor among rapists. While sex offending is undeniably socially deviant, most rapists do not exhibit sexually deviant preferences, although many show a propensity towards general criminality and violent behaviour that is more widespread than sexual violence towards women. These men have versatile criminal careers and their rates of violent and general recidivism are often considerably higher than sexual recidivism. Because sexual interests exist on a continuum, it is difficult to distinguish between sex offenders who find erotic pleasure in violence and those who force unwilling partners to comply with their sexual demands because of their beliefs in male sexual entitlement.

One of the most important risks for sexual recidivism, and a common pattern among sex offenders, is that they hold a set of self-serving beliefs, assumptions and attitudes known as cognitive distortions. These play an important role in maintaining the cycle of offending by influencing the offender’s interpretation of the victim’s behaviour, overcoming inhibitions to offending and minimising awareness of the seriousness and impact of the offending behaviour. Rapists’ attitudes towards women tend to be conservative or hostile and are consistent with rape myths and notions about male sexual entitlement. Their beliefs centre on the victims’ responsibility for the attack and are linked with an acceptance of interpersonal violence as a way of solving conflict. Rapists often justify their actions by blaming the victim or denying or rationalising the sexual assault in some way. This particular pathway to re-offending has been labeled ‘hypermasculinity’, but it is not necessarily confined to rapists, as non-offenders and non-sexual offenders may hold similar beliefs about male dominance or tolerance of interpersonal violence.[7] Rapists reflect a set of negatively stereotypic and hostile views that condone violence against women and gratification through dominance; they use the same excuses as other men to justify violence but are simply more extreme in their views.

II SEX OFFENDER TREATMENT PROGRAMS
The function of the criminal justice system has been increasingly revised to include rehabilitation of sex offenders through the delivery of sex offender treatment programs during custodial sentences. Sex offending is regarded as a learned behaviour that is subject to control. One of the principles underlying therapeutic intervention is that offenders are competent adults who choose to offend and they can be helped to develop strategies to control illegal behaviours.

International best practice centres on cognitive behavioural therapy within a relapse prevention model which broadly focuses on changing sexual behaviours and interests, modifying cognitive distortions and addressing a range of criminogenic needs. Interventions aim to challenge beliefs that support offending, develop offenders’ empathy for victims and understanding of the impact of sexual assault, and prevent relapse once they are released into the community. There have been few systematic evaluations of treatment programs internationally and there are no definitive results regarding treatment efficacy. A small number of evaluations and analyses point to an overall positive effect of treatment on both sexual and general recidivism, when appropriate candidates are selected for treatment and programs are delivered in optimal conditions.[8] Incapacitation continues to be necessary for offenders who cannot be treated due to deviance or psychopathology, particularly for those with extensive criminal histories that include violent offences.

Despite inconsistent evidence, there are important reasons for continuing to provide and evaluate interventions, including the fact that even small reductions in recidivism rates result in enormous savings to communities and, importantly, to potential victims. However, it is not clear whether all sex offenders require treatment, which components of treatment programs are effective, or whether current interventions are appropriate for all subgroups of offenders. In particular, there is less evidence about treatment efficacy for rapists than for child molesters and there are indications that ‘what works’ for other sex offenders may not work for rapists.[9] Many follow-up samples contain small numbers of rapists, whose violent recidivism rates are often higher than their sexual recidivism rates and are consistently higher than child molesters. As violent recidivism is likely to result in incarceration, rapists who are reconvicted for violent crimes have a reduced opportunity to offend sexually and reductions in sexual offending may be attributable either to treatment or to incapacitation.[10]

III VISIBLE AND HIDDEN SEX OFFENDERS: IMPLICATIONS FOR CRIMINAL JUSTICE
Given the overlap between violent and sexual reoffending, some authors argue that interventions should focus on preventing violent, rather than sexual, recidivism.[11] There is some validity to this view, but the causes of sexual recidivism may lie in factors that are both common to serious criminal behaviour and specific to sexual offending. Analysis of a range of structural and interpersonal variables strongly indicates that differences between violent and sexual offenders should not be minimised, either as conceptual categories or in treatment programs.

Current responses to sex offenders give inadequate consideration to the understanding that sexual assault is one way in which women are systematically subjugated. While the predominant theories underpinning treatment models recognise the multi-factorial causes of sexual offending, legal judgments individualise sexual offending and interventions focus on changing individual ‘deviations’ from normality, despite the fact that sexual violence against women is relatively commonplace. At this point, it is important to reiterate that current knowledge about sexual recidivism is based on mainly white, convicted and incarcerated sex offenders who may not be representative of the sex offender population.

Societal perceptions of sexual assault have resulted in some forms of sexual coercion being viewed as normative (particularly coercion within ‘legitimate’ relationships) and others as transgressive. Stranger or gang rapes, while the least common forms of sexual assault, have been the priority for policy-makers for a number of reasons. The apparently random nature of these crimes seems to present a greater danger to the community than violence between people known to each other. Some of the more persistent and visible sex offenders are found in these groups and it is assumed that they offend against many more victims than men who sexually assault partners, family members or acquaintances. Stranger or gang rapes may be more likely to result in injury, to be reported to police and to proceed to trial and conviction. They are also more likely to attract sensationalist media attention. In combination, these factors weigh heavily in public assessments of the seriousness of sex crimes, but they obscure the more widespread dynamics of sexual assault.

The public–private dichotomy positions men who sexually assault women they know as a special case, but large numbers of unreported sexual assaults are perpetrated by men whom women know and trust. These assaults are likely to be brutal, repeated and result in significant psychological harm to victims.[12] It is indefensible to argue that the community is not adversely affected by hidden sex offences. These harms are compounded when sexual assault is individualised before the law and the contribution of social processes to the maintenance of sexual violence is discounted. The incidence of sexual violence against women, and the extent to which men offend with impunity against women whom they know, reflects attitudes held by some sectors of society, which at the very least do not discourage male sexual aggression and, in some instances, condone it. These attitudes are most obvious in rape myths, rapists’ cognitive distortions, hypermasculinity and sexual offending, each of which is mediated by a range of social practices and has adverse psychological and interpersonal effects on men and on women’s collective rights.

IV CONCLUSION
Sexual violence is not perpetrated solely by individuals. It is supported by social practices on a continuum that spans the macro- and micro-levels of social life. Criminal justice and therapeutic efforts to prevent and reduce sexual offending must therefore take into consideration the range of social contexts and practices that legitimise sexual violence in ways that are often uncritically accepted as ‘natural’ or ‘normal’. Distinctions between private and public harms, extra-familial and intra-familial offenders, dangerous and non-dangerous offenders and the individual and society, disguise the complexity and extent of the problem. The conflation of sexual and non-sexual violence, along with other attempts to construct sexual assault as a gender-neutral crime, further injure women by obscuring the fact that these offences ‘happen to women because they are women. For that reason, they are group or social injuries’.[13]

While both sexual and non-sexual violence reflect the worst aspects of masculine culture, sexual violence is grounded in hierarchical relations of power and has unique consequences for victims. It is an institutionalised form of discrimination and oppression that has profound effects upon all women’s sense of safety. Women’s perceptions of vulnerability are reinforced by sensationalised coverage of sexual assault trials and by a sector of the media that turns sexual assault into a form of entertainment. The irony is that the dangerous sexual predators seen in courtrooms and on television screens may not typify the men of whom women most need to beware, or those most in need of rehabilitation.



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[*] PhD, Senior Research Fellow, Crime and Justice Research Centre, Victoria University of Wellington. This paper is based on a research report that provides a comprehensive overview of the literature on rates, risk factors and treatment efficacy for recidivism of sexual offenders. See Denise Lievore, Recidivism of Sexual Assault Ofenders: Rates, Risk Factors and Treatment Eficacy, Australian Institute of Criminology (2004). Funding for this research was provided through the National Initiative to Combat Sexual Assault, an Australian Government Initiative administered by the Office for Women.

[1] See, eg, Keith Soothill et al, ‘Sex Offenders: Specialists, Generalists – Or Both? A 32-year Criminological Study’ (2000) 40 British Journal of Criminology 56.

[2] Roderic Broadhurst and Nini Loh, ‘Careers of Sex Offenders: The Probabilities of Re-arrest’ (Paper presented at Second National Outlook Symposium: Violent Crime, Property Crime and Public Policy, Canberra, 3–4 March 1997) <http://www.aic.gov.au.conferences/outlook97.broad.html> at 8 January 2003; Peter H Burgoyne, Recidivism Among Rapists: A Study of Men Released from Custody After Having Served Sentences for Rape or Attempted Rape (1979); David M Greenberg, Julie-Ann Da Silva and Nini Loh, Evaluation of the Western Australian Sex Ofender Treatment Unit (1987–1999): A Quantitative Analysis (2002).

[3] See, eg, Robert Curnow, Peter Streker and Emma Williams, Juvenile Justice Evaluation Report: Male Adolescent Program for Positive Sexuality (1998).

[4] See, eg, William L Marshall and Howard E Barbaree, ‘An Integrated Theory of the Etiology of Sexual Offending’ in William L Marshall, Richard D Laws and Howard E Barbaree (eds), Handbook of Sexual Assault: Issues, Theories, and Treatment of the Ofender (1990) 257.

[5] Roderic Broadhurst, ‘Criminal Careers, Sex Offending and Dangerousness’ in Mark Brown and John Pratt (eds), Dangerous Ofenders: Punishment & Social Order (2000) 109.

[6] R Karl Hanson and Monique T Bussière, ‘Predicting Relapse: A Meta-analysis of Sexual Offender Recidivism Studies’ (1998) 66 Journal of Consulting and Clinical Studies 348; Hazel Kemshall, Risk Assessment and Management of Known Sexual and Violent Ofenders: A Review of Current Issues, Police Research Series Paper No 140, Home Office (2001).

[7] See, eg, Canton F Roberts, Dennis M Doren and David Thornton, ‘Dimensions Associated with Assessments of Sex Offender Recidivism Risk’ (2002) 29 Criminal Justice and Behavior 569; Tony Ward, ‘Sexual Offenders’ Cognitive Distortions as Implicit Theories’ (2000) 5 Aggression and Violent Behavior 491.

[8] See, eg, R Karl Hanson et al, ‘First Report of the Collaborative Outcome Data Project on the Effectiveness of Psychological Treatment for Sex Offenders’ (2002) 14 Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment 169.

[9] Devon L L Polaschek and Lucy L King, ‘Rehabilitating Rapists: Reconsidering the Issues’ (2002) 37 Australian Psychologist 215.

[10] Bill Glaser, ‘Therapeutic Jurisprudence: An Ethical Paradigm for Therapists in Sex Offender Treatment Programs’ (2003) 4 Western Criminology Review 143.

[11] Broadhurst, above n 5.

[12] Roxanne Lieb, Vernon Quinsey and Lucy Berliner, ‘Sexual Predators and Social Policy’, in Michael Tonry (ed), Crime and Justice: A Review of Research (1998) vol 25, 43.

[13] Regina Graycar and Jenny Morgan, The Hidden Gender of Law (1990) 308.

http://www.austlii.edu.au/au/journals/UNSWLawJl/2005/18.html

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BillRM
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 12:14 pm
@firefly,
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Another alleged rape by a police officer...


And here is another police officer clear of such a charge and only three months ago so it is fresh off the press.

Surprisingly this liar got two years behind bar instead of being allow to walk free. Not good enough in my opinion but it is a start in the right direction.
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JAIL FOR THE MUM WHO CRIED RAPE BECAUSE PC LOVER IGNORED HER TEXTS


The woman was jailed after crying rape because the man ignored her texts/pic posed
Saturday June 12,2010
By John Twomey Have your say(0)
A MOTHER who falsely accused a police officer of rape after he spurned her advances following a ­one-night stand was jailed for two years yesterday.


Anne-Marie Carter, 46, accused ­­ PC Matthew Tarrant of rape after ­meeting him on an internet dating website in October last year.

Carter, a single mother who has three sons from two different men, took revenge on the officer after he refused to reply to her text messages begging him to see her again.

She was jailed at Oxford Crown Court after she pleaded guilty to perverting the course of justice.

Judge Julian Hall accused her of making it easier for real rapists to be acquitted. “Some people who commit rape are acquitted because people like you make false allegations,” he said.

“To put this a little dramatically, you have betrayed the sisterhood. You kept Mr Tarrant hanging on not knowing what his fate would be for three months.” The court heard Carter invited PC Tarrant to her home in ­Banbury, Oxon, which she shares with her three sons, aged seven, 15 and 17.

They had sex and the next day he left for his job in London where he is a ­long-serving officer with the ­Metropolitan Police.

Carter sent him a text message which read: “Perhaps we can meet again next Wednesday.” When he failed to reply, she sent another text which read: “Are you OK?”

She later went to her local police station and claimed she had been raped.

Paul Harrison, prosecuting, said: “Miss Carter sent Mr Tarrant text ­messages which were completely ­inconsistent with her allegations.­

“Mr Tarrant did not reply to the ­messages. The prosecution maintains this led her to make a spiteful allegation against him.”


PC Tarrant was arrested and ­questioned for six hours. He was moved to a desk role and banned from contact with the public.

It was not until February this year that Carter admitted lying. She blamed her actions on “stress”. Lucy Tapper, mitigating, said: “She will be vilified and perhaps




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BillRM
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 12:28 pm
@firefly,
Quote:
Another alleged rape by a police officer...


Another police officer falsely accused of rape.

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Teen gives rape victims bad name - lawyer
July 09 2010 at 11:22AM Get IOL on your
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BY Shellee Geduld

A policeman accused of raping a teen after a police function has been cleared of all charges.

Constable Solomon Mbodla appeared in the Wynberg Sexual Offences Court last week where he was found not guilty of rape.

He was arrested in September last year after an 18-year-old girl claimed he raped her while she was sleeping.

In her judgement, Magistrate Sue Smith accused the teen of deliberately trying to incriminate a man in a crime he was innocent of.

On Thursday, Mbodla's lawyer William da Grass said his client was considering suing the teen for malicious prosecution.

"He was falsely accused and he will seek damages for his reputation as well as to recoup his legal expenses," said da Grass.
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Da Grass confirmed that his client had sex with the girl but says it was consensual.

"He did have sexual relations with her in Sean (Issel's) room while Sean was asleep on the bed next to them. Not once but twice," said Da Grass.

"And when she realised what she had done, she cried rape."

The lawyer said the teen's false accusations affected a lot more lives than just his client's.

Earlier this year, Sean allegedly lured his ex-girlfriend 25-year-old Bianca Issel to his Worcester home where he shot her three times before turning the gun on himself.

Sources close to the cop hinted the rape case was to blame for Sean's actions.

Despite his client's ordeal, Da Grass says Mbodla wants people to learn from his experience.

"She has given all the genuine victims of rape a bad name. It's because of incidents like this that genuine rape victims don't want to report their cases because they read that the accused person is acquitted, then they believe that the court system is unsympathetic," said Da Grass.

"Mr Mbodla is very saddened by what she has done and hopes this incident won't deter a rape victim or a victim of sexual violence from going to report what has happened to them." - Daily Voice
firefly
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 12:44 pm
@BillRM,
I repeat...
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You have nothing new to say on this issue. Once in a while, false accusations occur. How does that compare to the number of women being raped on a daily basis?

By continuing to post in this thread, rather than starting your own thread on the topic of false accusations, you are admitting that there is no interest in the topic of false accusations. You know that no one would post in a thread on that topic because there is nothing that could be said about it beyond what has already been said.

But, your life is apparently so devoid of interest you cannot find anything else to do with yourself other than to hang around here and post the same old pointless nonsense over and over, and over again, in a thread where your comments have run the gamut from ludicrous to inane, and where your main contribution has been to prove that you are a buffoon and a boor.

Hey, loser, get a life
firefly
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 12:50 pm
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Rape and Rape Prevention
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Date and Acquaintance rape
One of the most popular myths is that strangers who are lurking in the bushes somewhere commit rapes. While these rapes do occur, most rapes are committed by acquaintances, someone you know, perhaps a boyfriend, friend, husband, or relative. Almost half of all rapes occur in the victim's home or room.

Many times a woman will not want to confront her assailant, for fear of losing a job, getting a bad grade or losing respect within the community. Women sometimes look towards themselves, asking what they did wrong, therefore shifting the blame away from where it really should be.

The best way to protect yourself is to be aware of your surroundings and the people that you're with. Don't ignore feelings of uneasiness you may feel around a certain man, and don't worry about being rude or unfriendly. If someone is making you uncomfortable, don't let them intimidate you, and don't be afraid to let them know what your limits are. Keep in mind that whether you know the man, if it is a friend, if they assault you, it is rape and it can be reported.

Some steps to be taken in preventing date rape are:

If you live alone, only use your first initial and your last name on your mailbox.
There is safety in numbers, travel in groups whenever possible.
Take a self-defense course for women and learn how to resist an assailant.
Keep in mind that any date can turn into a date rape.
Know the name of the men that you date, and be reserved on the first day. Perhaps offer to pay for yourself so that you don't 'owe' anything.
If you're going home with a man that you don't know very well, make sure that someone else knows, and let the man know this as well.
If you begin to feel uncomfortable let him know right away that he's gone too far. Look for a way to leave.
Never feel that you have to give in to sexual intercourse. If you feel pressure, leave.
Use drugs and alcohol with caution.

Rape Trauma Syndrome
Surviving a rape puts a large emotional burden on a woman. She should seek some sort of counseling. Rape crisis centers exist in most metropolitan areas. They provide counselors to be with you for emotional support and to meet you at the hospital. The first thing that rape victims want to do is to shower or take a bath. This erases all evidence. Even though you may not want to visit a hospital and have an examination, it is crucial that you get some sort of immediate medical attention.

Rape also has a profound psychological effect. Often, women experience low self-esteem or low confidence. Again, it is a lot of self blame, for 'why did I agree to go out with him', or 'why did I wear that dress.' Please remember that it is not your fault, and you did not ask for it. Other things that are commonly experienced post rape are:

Denial - numbness and uncomprehending. You may deny the whole experience altogether, even if it means convincing yourself that you consented at some point in time.
Anger/grief - After experiencing shock and denial, a survivor often moves to the stage where she admits to herself that she has in fact been viciously violated and allows herself to react emotionally.
Depression - Experiencing both a loss of self-esteem and self-confidence, and even independence, some women fall into a long-term depression.
Taking action - At some point, a woman may take steps (described above) to protect herself from another attack
Acceptance - A survivors sense of safety and view of the world is usually permanently altered by experiencing a rape

Preventing Rape
If you are in immediate danger of being raped, here are some things that you can do.

Make a loud noise - Carry a whistle or scream "police" to attract attention
Run - Only run if there is somewhere safe to run to. If there is no where to go you may aggravate the assailant further by running
Stall - Speak calmly and rationally. Try not to plead, cry or show that you're scared, this may be the reaction that he's going for.
Urinate or vomit - Do anything you can to repulse the assailant. Tell him that you have a STD or AIDS.
Fight - Women who resist attacks and act quickly are less likely to be raped, than those who are passive. The optimum time to react is in the first 20 seconds when the body releases chemicals in the blood that help to put up a fight. Be cautious if he has a weapon.
Keep alert - Even though it will be difficult, try to pay attention to as many details as possible, so that you can identify your assailant.
Get help - Call 9-1-1 as soon as possible. Police are becoming more willing to help victims of rape. You are not obligated to press charges or go to court.
Collect evidence - Do not bathe, shower, or douche. If you change clothes, put the clothes you were raped in into a bag and seal it.
Tell someone - Call the police, rape crisis counselor, telephone operator, friend. It is very important that someone knows and that it is not kept a secret.

http://www.estronaut.com/a/avoiding_rape.htm
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BillRM
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 01:02 pm
@firefly,
Strange you should logically be eager to address both sides of the coin if your real concern was reducing sexual assault instead of just painting males in a bad light.

Every-times some lady falsely accused a man of rape it does great harm to the women who are victims of rape.

Your method of dealing with this problem is just pretending it rarely if ever happen and so it is not a problem at all compared to rape.

Once more logically you should be far far more outrage when I am when a woman file such a charge and should be eager to greatly increased the penalties for so doing.

You should be demanding that when there are sessions on college campuses dealing with no mean no that yes mean yes also and getting back at some boyfriend or ex-boyfriend by falsely charging rape is just as morally bad as some young man not taking no and raping some woman.



firefly
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 02:04 pm
And now a priest...

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Catholic Priest Charged With Rape of 14-Year-Old Girl, Diocese of Osnabrueck, Germany
By Beth Shaw
Wednesday, August 25th, 2010 at 4:50 pm

A Roman Catholic priest has been charged with rape of a 14-year-old girl 20-years ago in the Diocese of Osnabrueck, Germany. Read about it below.

German prosecutors say a Roman Catholic priest has been charged with twice raping a 14-year-old girl 20 years ago. The woman contacted the diocese of Osnabrueck earlier this year about the alleged abuse. The Roman Catholic Church in Germany has been experiencing an ever increasing scandal as more of these types of cases have been brought to light.

In fact, Germany’s top Roman Catholic bishop, Robert Zoellitsch (pictured above), has been under investigation for suspicious that he was aware of child abuse case involving Catholic priests during the 1960s. Zoellitsch is the head of the German Bishops’ Conference and archbishop of Freiburg. He is accused of allowing a Cistercian priest be given a parish job in another parish in spite of child abuse allegations having been made against the priest.

Now, in Osnabrueck, prosecutors say that a 50-year-old priest is accused of using force and threatened her with punishment from God if she didn’t have sex with him. This is alleged to have happened 20-years-ago when the unnamed priest was a chaplain.

The woman has said that this happened over a three-year period of time and the sexual contact with the priest was marked by violence. Prosecutors say they can only substantially verify two of the incidents, which is enough to have charges filed against the priest.

The allegations of the Catholic priest rape of the 14-year-old girl are under investigation. However, he has admitted to having sexual contact with the girl and has been relieved of his duties by the church.
http://law.rightpundits.com/?p=2161
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 02:15 pm
@BillRM,
BillRM wrote:

Strange you should logically be eager to address both sides of the coin if your real concern was reducing sexual assault instead of just painting males in a bad light.

Every-times some lady falsely accused a man of rape it does great harm to the women who are victims of rape.

Your method of dealing with this problem is just pretending it rarely if ever happen and so it is not a problem at all compared to rape.

Once more logically you should be far far more outrage when I am when a woman file such a charge and should be eager to greatly increased the penalties for so doing.

You should be demanding that when there are sessions on college campuses dealing with no mean no that yes mean yes also and getting back at some boyfriend or ex-boyfriend by falsely charging rape is just as morally bad as some young man not taking no and raping some woman.




Do you understand at all what topic means? The topic of this thread is about rape. It is not about people being falsely accused of rape. If you so desperately want to discuss that issue MAKE YOUR OWN THREAD! Not one person has said it is okay for anyone to falsely accuse anyone of rape. But because we are sticking to the thread topic you assume we think it is okay.

Please just let us have our discussion. Make your own thread. I promise you I will not even post on it.
firefly
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 02:18 pm
This man arranged for his girlfriend to be raped..rapists can now be found on the internet.

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Jebidiah Stipe Arranges Ex-Girlfriends Rape Via Craigslist
By Shannon Bell
Saturday, February 6th, 2010 at 11:24 am

Even in the friendly and quiet confines of Casper, Wyoming, shocking and deviant crimes take place. Jebidiah Stipe arranged his ex-girlfriends rape via Craigslist and is now sitting in the Natrona County jail along with the alleged assailant Ty McDowell. Stipe placed an ad under the name ‘Sarah’ saying that he was looking for a “real aggressive man” who would rape her inside of her home.

Ty McDowell, 26, answered the ad, and on December 11th he broke into the woman’s home, tied her up and raped her. The only problem was it wasn’t “Sarah” he was raping; at least not the “Sarah” who had placed the ad. He was actually assaulting the ex-girlfriend of Jebidiah Stipe who in some sick way was acting out a fantasy.

Jebidiah Stipe arranged his ex-girlfriends rape via Craigslist, waited for someone [Ty McDowell] to answer and then provided an address and a picture and then waited for the rape to occur. Ty McDowell has been charged with sexual assault and Stipe is being held as an accomplice in his ex-girlfriends rape.

Authorities say that even if McDowell refutes the charges by saying he thought he was just acting out a fantasy he will still be charged with sexual assault. Good for them. Whether he was just “playing a part” in a fantasy or had the intentions of just raping the woman, the tendency was obviously there for McDowell to commit such a crime.

Craigslist has come under fire recently for crimes being committed through ads placed on the website. Jebidiah Stipe arranged his ex-girlfriends rape via Craigslist in the “casual encounters” section. I don’t know about you but breaking into a woman’s home, tying her up, and brutally raping her would need to be classified as something other than a casual encounter.
http://law.rightpundits.com/?p=1209


Even female paid "escorts" can be raped. This rapist was a Federal Air Marshall...

Quote:


Federal Air Marshal Charged With Raping Woman in Airport Hotel
Published April 22, 2010 | FOXNews.com

A federal air marshal has been charged with raping a female escort at gunpoint in a Seattle airport hotel while wearing his badge, the Seattle Times reported.

Lecheton "Omar" Settles is being held on $250,000 bail on a charge of first-degree rape, accused of using his position as a law enforcement officer to coerce the escort — and of using his government-issued firearm to threaten her, the paper reported.

Settles, 30, was in town from Herndon, Va., on official business but called an escort service to his Marriot Hotel room Friday, initially agreeing to pay the woman $180 to perform a dance in lingerie, according to court documents accessed by the Times.

But when the woman emerged from the the Sea Tac hotel's bathroom, she found Settles naked, wearing only his badge and brandishing his gun, according to the newspaper. Settles claimed to be a U.S. Marshal and told the woman she had to do whatever he ordered.

The court documents state that Settles placed the handgun on the bed while he raped the woman and demanded the return of his $180, placing her in handcuffs and pretending to call his supervisor after the rape, the Times reported.

Settles, who is scheduled to be arraigned April 28, has been fired by the TSA, a spokesman told the paper.

http://www.foxnews.com/us/2010/04/22/federal-air-marshal-charged-raping-woman-airport-hotel/
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 02:20 pm
@firefly,
Where is it going to end? Police, teachers, priests, fathers? It is easy to understand why trust is such a big issue in life anymore. If you can't trust a cop or a priest or your own father, who can you trust?
BillRM
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 02:26 pm
@Arella Mae,
Quote:
Where is it going to end? Police, teachers, priests, fathers? It is easy to understand why trust is such a big issue in life anymore. If you can't trust a cop or a priest or your own father, who can you trust?


Most people are kill let alone rape by their life partners then strangers.

That is the risk that we humans need to assume unless we are going to live along lock into our homes.

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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 02:26 pm
@Arella Mae,
Quote:
But because we are sticking to the thread topic you assume we think it is okay.
you get to decide what this thread is about only for you, you do not get to decide for anyone else.

Such a simple truth, but obviously is it beyond you..

BillRM
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 02:49 pm
@Arella Mae,
You know I had always been in favor of having a course at the high school level in how to assess life risks.

Be that risk smoking, driving, flying being a victim of crimes including murder and rape or for that matter being falsely charge with the crime of rape.

Perhaps such a course might not proved all that helpful given that some people seems to have a very strong emotional need to live their lives in fear.

Right Arella Mae? Smile
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 02:54 pm
@hawkeye10,
hawkeye10 wrote:

Quote:
But because we are sticking to the thread topic you assume we think it is okay.
you get to decide what this thread is about only for you, you do not get to decide for anyone else.

Such a simple truth, but obviously is it beyond you..


I am not the only one that has requested that you and Bill start another thread with YOUR topic. It seems to pretty much be the general concensus of everyone else on the thread. Only YOU and BILL refuse to stick to the topic. Such a simple truth is beyond me? Um, you have been asked over and over again to start your own thread and stop derailing this one - so what simple truth is beyond YOU? Rolling Eyes
BillRM
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 03:02 pm
@Arella Mae,
Quote:
It seems to pretty much be the general concensus of everyone else on the thread. Only YOU and BILL refuse to stick to the topic. Such a simple truth is beyond me? Um, you have been asked over and over again to start your own thread and stop derailing this one - so what simple truth is beyond YOU?


Given that there are now four posters on this thread, I do not see how you can claim a consensus but what the hell.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 03:04 pm
@BillRM,
BillRM wrote:

You know I had always been in favor of having a course at the high school level in how to assess life risks.

Be that risk smoking, driving, flying being a victim of crimes including murder and rape or for that matter being falsely charge with the crime of rape.

Perhaps such a course might not proved all that helpful given that some people seems to have a very strong emotional need to live their lives in fear.

Right Arella Mae? Smile
Let me ask you something Bill. Does it make you feel good to make such snide accusations? You know, I said some pretty mean things to you because I got upset and I do regret saying them because it wasn't right and I do apologize for doing it.

The point is - this is a thread about rape. firefly, who started the thread, has repeatedly asked you to start your own thread because you were not staying on topic. Those that have actually been involved in the topic have been having a civil discussion and I, for one, have learned quite a lot.

Do you think it is easy for a woman to admit she has been raped and open herself up to discussions about it? I can tell you this, Bill. It takes a lot for a woman to do that, especially on a forum like this. But one thing I have found in every rape victim I've ever met is the desire to help someone else overcome the scars of their rape and to do that, we have to share how we feel about what happened to us. So, you consistently and constantly throwing in the "false accusation" topic is not only derailing the thread but it is extremely insensitive of others' feelings not to mention it is just plain rude.

An article was posted about 200 women and children being raped and you did not even say, "oh my!" What did you do? You immediately posted an article about false accusations, which to me, anyway, might as well have been saying those 200 women and children were falsely accusing. Can you see that?

I have no doubt being falsely accused of a rape can and has ruined lives. None of us here disagree with that but, it is not the topic of the thread.

None of this is about living in fear. It's about reality and the way things are out there in the real world. It's about being informed and aware.
firefly
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 03:05 pm
@BillRM,
Found a great shirt for you

http://site.despair.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/ignore.jpg
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firefly
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 03:11 pm
@hawkeye10,
You think like a rapist. You do what you want, regardless of how it affects anyone else. It's all about dominance and power with you. You think like a rapist.

Found you a new avatar.

http://theoutdoorawards.files.wordpress.com/2010/05/ignore-me-2-11.jpg?w=697&h=465g
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Tue 31 Aug, 2010 03:11 pm
@firefly,
That is a most informative and excellent article firefly. Isn't it sad though? We actually have to have studies to determine such things? I do wonder why it is so hard to rehabilitate rapists? Maybe the answer is - there just is evil in the world.
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