@MontStMichel,
MontStMichel wrote:
My wife met this woman who had kept staring at her at a restuarant/coffee shop she frequents. She found out this woman shares many of the same interests, was at the same massage school my wife is currently attending. This woman went back to the massage school to attend classes with her; they exchange emails and text messages and phone calls late into the night. They have been naked with one another at school (my wife would like to get a tree tattoo like this lesbian has on her side-she thinks it's hot); they may have touched one another as part of the school massage; my wife has experimented with another woman many years ago; her sister is bisexual and her mom had a pseudo-relationship with a lesbian many years ago. She talks about this woman constantly and says she believes they've been soul mates in a past life. I am very concerned that my wife doesn't see that she loves this woman and wants to be with her. Should I be concerned?
Hi Mont!
If you are concerned? and you appear to be, may I suggest you speak to your wife about your concerns. Sometimes when a relationship dulls, the exitement of being around others renews the lost spirit. Many relationships go through a dulling phase, and many survive. It really is a case of "same old, same old" that leads a person to seek new pastures.
Have you tried revitalising the essence of the commonalities and adventures that brought you together in the first place?
Do so, and see what happens.
Do you spend more time considering yourself than you do her? Do YOU find escape, i.e. surfing the net, work, hobbies or personal interests more refreshing than being with her?
Are you even in-love with each other anymore?
I know, if I were in-love, This keypad would never know my touch again.
Have a thoughtful day, Mont!
Mark...