@Butrflynet,
Hey Butrflyet - yep, I believe Robert said something like that before... but I believe that would be the case if I had hundreds of contacts and 1000's of PM's (can't quite remember where he said it to me and I can't find the thread now)
but I really don't have that many contacts or PMs
this being the case tho, having a delete feature in PM's would be extremely useful so that I could decide which PM's
I choose to delete rather than the software deleting my private messages.
I use the forum as my main cyberspace communication with folk, which granted is free, but I prefer that method than giving my email address out to one and all - at least using a PM facility I do not have to deal with spam or crahp (so far) - I understand tho that is probably only personal to me and others don't use the PM facility in the way I do. No-one else appears to be whining about PMs like I do - so it's seemingly not a problem for others.
Thank you tho, Butrfly, for your reply