@xris,
You see, this is a perfect example of
your anger issues. There is no debate, either one states that atheists are not scary, or one comes up with an explanation for why the author might be frightened--but ultimately, only the author can determine why he or she is frightened of atheists. There's no debate going on here at all.
You certainly did get hysterical in the UFO thread when you failed to distinguish between speculation and what you were pleased to state was a case of "science seriously considering" the idea of "parallel universes." When you were challenged on that, you began ranting that you were being attacked and abused.
You're doing it again. To arrogate is to take on a privilege to which one is not entitled. It is not arrogant to dispute what someone else writes here--everyone has the right to dispute what you write. It is also not abusive--no one comes here with a free pass, no one here is entitled to make statements which cannot be challenged.
It is not colloquial modern English to speak of "familiar spirits," nor to say to someone "be off with you." It is silly and pretentious, however.