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The chances of a another intelligent life bearing planet existing anywhere in our Universe have been seriously downgraded to 1 : 10 ^ 20 against!
So its odds on we are very alone!
Small extract - ignoring the 33 planetary and galactic conditions to support life and their importance and probability.
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Probability of all necessary parameters occurring on one planet
In order to calculate the probability for the existence of other life supporting planets in the universe, at least two other factors must be taken into account. First of all, it needs to be recognized that a number of the above parameters are interdependent, and thus a simple multiplication of individual probabilities will give too low a figure. Thus, a dependency factor needs to be added in.
On the other hand, the dependency factor is at least partially canceled out by a longevity factor, in that all of the parameters must be maintained within acceptable limits for very long periods of time. In the case of the earth, that means almost 4 billion years!
How large are these factors? Dr. Hugh Ross uses in his estimates 10 ^ 9 for the dependency factor and .0001 for the longevity factor. Putting all of these factors together, that means that the probability of the 33 parameters mentioned above that have estimated probability factors to all come together in one planet comes out to one in 10 ^ 42 (or 10 ^ -42)! As there are a number of other parameters being researched for their sensitivity to the support of life on a planet at the probability of finding a Jupiter-like planet as part of a planetary system and numerous other factors not included in the figures above), the odds are probably many orders of magnitude worse! Even if one is generous and makes the dependency factor a million times greater the odds still only rise to 10-36!
As there are at the most only approximately 10 ^ 23 stars in the entire universe, it becomes quite obvious that the odds of finding even one star with a life supporting planet is very small - about 10 ^ -20 according to the probabilities listed above. One can, of course, argue with some of the probability estimates for specific parameters, as different scientists using different assumptions and rationales will no doubt come out with different probabilities for at least some of the planetary parameters. The figures used above are, according to Dr. Ross, rather optimistic figures, and thus the probability is high that many of these parameters are even further restrictive. Likewise, it should be added that while we can directly observe only the 9 planets of our own solar system, we have literally trillions of stars that we can observe and make measurements on. Thus, the figures for the stellar parameters are far more certain.