@BillRM,
So you consider Braxton Bragg to have been superior? You consider P G T Beauregard to have been superior? What happened at Shiloh? What happened at Antietam? What happened at Gettysburg?
The one officer in the south who could be reasonably described as being as competent or more competent than the officers of the Federal armies was Thomas Jackson, and he died of wounds in 1863, after Chancellorsville and before Gettysburg. Lee is made some kind of military saint, even though he consistently failed to order basic staff work done before launching his operations, did not control his general officers well and was profligate of the lives of his men. Jackson, and possibly Longstreet, might have done more with that army, but neither of them ever commanded that army.
No, far from balancing the manpower shortage, southern officers consistently squandered their human resources in pointless attacks. I suggest that you read
Attack and Die: Civil War Military Tactics and the Southern Heritage, G. McWhiney and P. D. Jamieson, University of Alabama Press, 1980. I consider the "heritage" part of it to be hilarious bullshit--but there is no doubt that the authors have hit the nail on the head in their criticism of southern tactical doctrine. Adopting a strategic defense, to the point that troops spent the war defending territory against attacks that never came, the tactical doctrine was to attack Federal forces whenever and wherever possible. This lead to horrible bloodlettings, which, even when accounted a victory, cost the South more than it could afford. The Seven Days, Shiloh, Pea Ridge, Iuka, Cedar Mountain, Antietam, Gettysburg, Bristoe Station, the Wilderness, the battles around Atlanta--the South only stopped its insane attacks when they had so bled white their armies that they no longer could mount attacks.
As usual, it's you with the comic book view of history.