@Finn dAbuzz,
That's very sweet Finn, but not very realistic.
First of all, I do believe that racism is and always has been at the center of the immigration debate in this country. It is funny you used the Chinese in your example. The first modern immigration law was called the "Asian Exclusion Act" and was implicitly racist. Racism was the whole point of the law based on the "knowledge" that Chinese people could not possibly assimilate. In the 1920's there was a complicated system designed to restrmigration, and look at the comments. To ignore the fact that there is deep vicious racism toward Latinos in this country and that it is a big part of the immict immigration from Catholic countries while favoring northern European immigrants. Africans and Asians were pretty well excluded until the 1960's (where things started to change thanks to Ted Kennedy's work).
Of course racism still plays a big part in the debate. Google any story that mentions Mexico, even a story that has nothing to do with imigration issue is naive at best.
But secondly, your idea that we will somehow come to a "mutually agreeable solution" is also naive. That isn't the way we do things in the United States.
The first big issue in the United States was slavery. We tried a couple of half-assed compromises with three-fifths and Missouri, but the issue simmered until we ended up fighting a war over it. One side won, the other side lost. And after almost 150 years the side that lost is still bitter.
Womans suffrage was the same. We didn't come to any agreement. One side agitated and agitated and would not back down. They won when they figured out how to use the press effectively and they pretty convincingly humiliated the Wilson administration into submission. One side won, the other side lost.
Martin Luther King did the same. His message and strength of character rolled over the people who opposed civil rights (and it is not difficult to find American's who still hate Dr. King). School segregation was ended with troops while people who wanted to keep it threw rocks and screamed obscenities.
Gay marriage proponents aren't stopping with their recent victories. There will be no agreement between them and the fundamentalist Christians who think they are evil. Look at the little scuffle between Dan Savage and Rick Santorum. Santorum is now a constant target of late night comedians for his "Google" problem.
I respect that Brandon is an American, and I support his right to an opinion and to free speech yadda yadda yadda. But I don't think we will ever come to an agreement over our differences. One of our sides will win, and the other will lose and America will go on regardless.
However, I am confident the battle against monoculturalism has already been won. The holdouts are mainly a bunch of grumpy old white men who will inevitably die off leaving America to the the next generation which is far more diverse, open-minded and accepting.
Of course, our responsibility is to keep pushing.