Home tired after a hard day at work & now I'm reading ....
After all this input I feel the need to revise my own position. Not that I exactly had one before!
:
How's this?:
Like quite a number of you, my first effort turned out to be a bit of a "trial run" ... not that that's what the
intention was, but hey, that's what it turned out to be ...
So, after that, I'd say as many genuine attempts as one has the desire, fortitude & energy for. In my case each one would have to be totally monogamous because ... well just because. That's just me.
But after the failed first trial run, hopefully one makes more informed choices.
There are two contributing factors, though, which have the potential to turn one into a scaredy cat (as POM said).
* you never really know
who exactly you're tangled up with till you
live with them for a time. Seriously. No matter how well you thought you knew them before. There could (&
have been!) nasty surprises down the track. These sorts of surprises can rather put one off contemplating further ventures.
* Secondly, the
endings of marriages & long term relationships. They are never easy,
always painful. No matter which partner instigates the ending & for what reason/s. They make you feel extremely crappy, anyway. So if you were thinking 4, possibly 5 marriages ... consider the impact 4, possibly 5 endings!!!
That is a very sobering thought, yes?
OK, that's my thinking at the moment. Consider this a rough draft!