@Setanta,
It's been more than alluded to on A2k (but not in my real life) that I'm resistant to change/new technology, etc.
That's not it at all. In fact, in daily life, I'm very much more open to change than most.
Not however, change just for changes sake.
I have no opinion at this time as to this following business, as I'll have to tinker around with it to see if it benefits me in any way. At least now I have an idea of what it's supposed to be/do.
I'll say right out that I have hawkeye on ignore, so I don't know specifically what he was saying about cliques, or popularity contests, but from reading others comments, I know that's what he was talking about.
Actually, I can definately see how this is/could be a popularity thing.
I think those who have said that it's not, that we are all above that, that we are merely following those who interest us, are giving human nature too much credit.
Of course it's at least partly a popularity contest. It follows that the most popular posters are going to get the most followers.
Those who get a lot of followers, will most likely humbly say "oh, it doesn't matter if X number of people are following me".
At least in some amount, these people are full of ****.
It's human nature to be pleased when others think enough of you to want to listen to you.
Back to the technology business.....On a regular basis, weekly it seems, some new product is out on the market, and a large number of people immediately start saying "isn't this cool?"
Well, I'd have to say I don't know if something is cool or not. Not until I have someone explain what it's going to do, and if I decide it does it better than way I'm doing it now.
Do I need an app that will tell me what 15 or 20% of a bill is, so I can leave a tip?
No.
Do I need one that will tell me what song is playing at a bar?
No, of course for one I'm not a big music fan....but also because I personally don't need the instant gratification, and more to the point, I don't want to be pressing buttons and fiddling with an electronic device when there is a real live person sitting with me.
I truly believe many people, through this "gotta have the latest gizmo" mentality, are becoming less and less discerning in ways that really matter. Conversely, they are becoming more and more discerning in ways that don't add up to a pile of beans.
I'm speaking of those who won't meet your eyes in public, and say "good morning", because they are isolated from humanity because of the ipod stuck in their ears.
These same people, who've we've all seen, are the first to carefully monitor how much cinamon is sprinkled on their latte, and whose day is ruined because someone stopping at the light in front of them is going to make them late for their networking meeting.
People before things.
People ask questions, things should be explained the way people can understand.