@argome321,
Arg, it's frustrating enough to be unable to take someone at their word. It is frustrating enough for it to be impossible to understand what you "really mean' (which is apparently different from what you "really say"), because you refuse to say what you "really mean."
But it really takes the cake when you use your own denial, equivocation, and evasiveness as a basis for saying someone else is DISHONEST.
Know what I'm sayin?
You don't say that maybe you have been misunderstood.
You don't say that perhaps you weren't clear.
You say other people are LIARS for taking you at your word.