@edgarblythe,
edgarblythe wrote:Who on this thread had to wait to become convinced by Darwin?
The apparent premise of your question, that the religious part of our upbringing happened before the scientific part, doesn't apply to me. As the son of two chemists who raised me as an Evangelical-Lutheran, both parts happened simultaneously for me. (The Evangelical-Lutheran Church of Germany is theologically liberal, comparable to the ECLA in America.)
My trigger for becoming an atheist was that, between the age of 14 and 16, I read the whole Bible, cover to cover. From reading it all, including the parts my priests consistently skipped over, it immediately became obvious to me that this book couldn't possibly have been inspired by a loving, almighty, and all-knowing god.
Although evolution never figured into this decision, it did have an indirect influence on keeping the matter decided for me. Evolution removes the "argument from design" for religion, which would otherwise have been a fairly strong argument for believing in
some sort of god. It's not a compelling argument -- Hume punched holes in it without knowing about evolution -- but without evolution, it would have been the least bad argument for the origin of species. So, although acceptance of evolution didn't make me an atheist, it's responsible for my remaining one.