@FBM,
Peniel is where Jacob wrestled with the angel and received an injury to the sinew in the hollow of his thigh which Hippocrates reported as a common crippling injury for wrestlers. It is caused by forcing the legs too wide apart.
You might recall that Solomon expresses adoration for the joints of the thighs in his beloved.
Jacob belonged to a mother-right age and owed his position to having supplanted Esau, his twin, in the womb (by the mother) by "tripping him up".
Hosea XII, 3-4 connects this supplanting with the wrestling injury.
Jacob thus being Jah-aceb, "the heel god", as the injury causes the heel not to touch the ground when walking.
Abraham, Jacob's grandfather, had a sacred thigh (
Genesis XXIV, 2) and had a servant support it when taking an oath as Jacob later makes Joseph do his (
Genesis XLVII, 29.)
The Amiri tribes of Southern Arabia have been reported to kiss the thigh of the Emir in homage to this day. They claim to be the sons of Ma'in and the oldest race in the world. Self evidently matriarchal.
The gait produced by the injury, or the imitation of it, was used by actors on the ancient Greek stage because it causes a swaggering or mincing motion, as with high heel shoes, and was understood when affected off stage to have erotic implications.
The word
saleuma meant the oscillation or waggling of the buttocks which was, and still is, understood as the deliberate flaunting of sexual allure. The letters SALM occur in a number of names of ancient kings.
Greek prostitutes were called Salmakides and
Isaiah III, 16 chides the ladies for walking in such a lascivious manner and rolling their eyes as they progress.
The gloss
Genesis gives to Jacob's lameness is " Therefore the Children of Israel eat not of the sinew which shrank, which is in the hollow of the thigh, to this day." Which, I have heard, is the letter of the law still in some modern communities although no longer strictly enforced except by the veils of accepted discretion and judicious decorum.
Obviously, the process of supplanting the matriarchy and raising the patriarchy is the crux of the matter which, I presume, meets with your approval. One doesn't wrestle with an angel all night in 7 minutes.
Your prejudiced determination to discredit the Bible is what is in the way of you reading it properly and causing you to jump to premature conclusions in an understandable gush of adolescent enthusiasm.