@snood,
snood wrote:
One thing I can empathize with is the necessity to hide part of the true self expressed by littlek and others. It's not right that they should have to lie on their jobs or in their lives because of the kneejerk reaction that people might generally have toward atheists.
This reminds me of an odd encounter I had on Facebook the other day. I still can't quite make sense of it. On new years eve, I posted up a new status:
"Happy new years and junk!"
and then I got this really odd reply from one of my old coworkers:
" Happy new years you atheist! Wish you the best!"
It's not offensive, but it sure is weird. Obviously the guy doesn't harbor any ill will against me, but the inclusion of any statement about religion seemed completely non-sequitur. I've been reflecting on this (perhaps too much), and I came up with the idea that maybe what my friend was trying to tell me was simply that he acknowledged that part of me. We have never had any sort of conversation about the topic, so it's not like it was a reference to some older inside joke. What I'm wondering is if he has at any previous point in his life really known any atheists, and perhaps the awkwardness of this exchange comes from not knowing how to politely breach the subject.
I think atheists and theists need some sort of forum to interact. If there is some sort of cultural divide, it seems dangerous to only let media personalities be engaging each other and setting the tone for all interactions.
snood wrote:
I also agree that it's stinks that an atheist wouldn't be able to be open about how they (don't) believe, if they were in pursuit of public office. Because it is undeniable that atheists couldn't get a fair shake in a public election.
Agreed. At least right now that's the case. The Australian PM is an open Atheist. I think that is significant in terms of world progress.
snood wrote:
Having said all that, in the interest of full disclosure I have to say that I still harbor the exact kind of prejudice that would make me look askance at , say, a teacher in my junior high who was open about being atheist.
What would be your concern? Is it an atheist concern or a non-Christian concern?
Full disclosure, I too have concern about deeply religious and openly religious teachers at schools. I'm sure part of that concern is because I'm an atheist, but certainly not all of it. There is most likely many religious people who feel similarly.
In the end, I don't have kids so I can only imagine. Despite my concerns, I'm sure children benefit from being exposed to many types of people. It builds their ability to sympathize. That's something I still have plenty to learn on and it's not something we always learn passively.
snood wrote:
I've come quite a way in sort of evolving past my homophobia, and I had a couple of experiences a few years back that made me take a hard look at how I relate to women in positions of authority. Living and letting live with atheists is something I admit to having room for growth about.
Cheers to you for that snood. Many in their life will never dare explore their own prejudices, let alone challenge them. I suspect that simply knowing and interacting with atheists more and more (like interacting with anyone) will deemphasize the idea that atheism makes a person so different from yourself.
Relating to the homophobia example you provided, I still remember the first time I met a gay person. I was young, and although not hateful, I certainly was apprehensive. That was still a form of homophobia. These days, I look back I feel ridiculous thinking about the anxiety it created. I think about how I saw gay people as just fine but somehow so divided and different than me. I don't know when I got over that anxiety in my teens, but it was largely due to actually meeting homosexuals and building friendships.
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