Attractiveness is hard to gauge. I tend to be attracted to Rubenesque brunettes. But that is only in the physical sense. The one physical type i find totally unattractive is the stick woman. Rail thin, flat butt, no boobs. However, I have female friends who fit that description who, now that I know them, I find very attractive because the total package is how I judge them, not just the physical looks.
Also, some women just have hot radiating off of them. It's an undefinable chemistry you feel with some people. But again, that's just the physical side.
However butterfly darling with all due respect, you cannot discount the preference of a certain physical type as sexist or wrong. It's all part of the deal.
As for me, I have always been very lucky in that a great majority of women find me attractive...I think it's a reaction to the fact that I'm an entertainer and exude self confidence and control whether it's genuine or not..........of course once they get to know the real me it's a different story.... :wink: