@ossobuco,
Hello again.
Sorry, I do have a habit of starting a thread and then buzzing off.
I need to re-read the thread, but here's a comment for now.
(Foofie I'm going to ignore you).
Osso, I totally see what you mean about the need to get away from laundry talk etc. When my mum and my gran are together it's like the annual village gossip convention and I find it unbearable. (Whats more, it's not even interesting gossip, it's just like who had a leg operation and who missed church on sunday).
I CAN however talk to my dad about more interesting matters, but I see this as purely coincidental; it could easily be beer and cars. My father only ever solicits his opinion about religion or politics when I'm there and ask him something anyway.
One observation I have made, is the difference in gender distinctions between my friends I made from school and the friends I made at university.
My 'school circle' is much more divided into 'sexual stereotypes', much more. Not just in taste and activity, but in attitude and personality.
It would be true to say in relation to my specific groups of friends that the less intelligent and less creative fit into the stereotypes a lot more easily than the more intelligent and creative ones.
I go to an 'art's university', as in the only subjects studied are culture subjects and social sciences- the gender distinctions are pretty loose. The standard that arty men are more in touch with their feminine side is pretty self-evident here. And actually, 60% at my university are women, and the remaining half of men are gay.
Without sounding like an elitist prick, can I ask if anyone else has any experience of attitudes towards gender with respect to intelligence or creativity?