@panzade,
Hey, Panz, you mean a lot to me too. It was a simple cataract surgery that went awry, indeed not a breeze, maybe or maybe not - opinions differ - because of my, er, flabby zonules with the retinitis pigmentosa. Those are the bands that keep the eye lens in place. That first one turned into a long surgery, as was the second, the emergency surgery by the retinal specialist.
My retinitis is sort of a steady state system, and according to my sequence of ophthamologists, not progressing since it was first diagnosed in the late eighties, and I'd had it at least back into childhood. But I have glaucoma in the bad left eye after that first surgery, and that is progressing.
Anyway, I totally sympathize with you about all you expressed, including the money problems, the dependence business, well.. all of it. Thank you for standing by, and I'll stand by you too.