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my boyfriend loves getting head but i dont like to give it

 
 
aidan
 
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Reply Sun 16 Aug, 2009 11:37 am
@spendius,
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Give thanks for the young innocents of A2K that your American ways will be unanswered. Don't try that stuff from an adjacent bar stool with no witnesses for protection with a guy who knows what I meant.

I know what you meant. I would never ask the question of someone I didn't know very, very well- (that's why I said 'nevermind) and certainly not from an adjacent bar stool (or on a public forum).
I can be as discreet as you can you know.
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contrex
 
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Reply Sun 16 Aug, 2009 11:48 am
@aidan,
Aidan wrote:
But I still think skilful (or skillful) fellatio is grammatically incorrect


Both the practitioner and the performance of the art practised can be called "skillful" according to Merriam-Webster, so I am afraid I think you are mistaken.
spendius
 
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Reply Sun 16 Aug, 2009 12:11 pm
@contrex,
I think "skull-full" is okay but the Shorter Oxford and the Collins both give "skilful".
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spendius
 
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Reply Sun 16 Aug, 2009 12:32 pm
@aidan,
Quote:
But I still think skilful (or skillful) fellatio is grammatically incorrect, much as someone might like to be able to experience the skill well applied without need of s skil(l)ful applier.


One doesn't actually "like" it my dear. I said it was downright dangerous but I'll agree it is likeable when performed by an amateur who sees herself as doing a favour.

I used the word "experienced" to mean what it means in the case of carpenters or brain surgeons. Or wily spin bowlers. Knowledge gained from long practice in a difficult art making perfect.

aidan
 
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Reply Sun 16 Aug, 2009 01:24 pm
@contrex,
Thank you Contrex - now I don't have to go to the peeves thread with this.
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aidan
 
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Reply Sun 16 Aug, 2009 01:29 pm
@spendius,
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I used the word "experienced" to mean what it means in the case of carpenters or brain surgeons. Or wily spin bowlers. Knowledge gained from long practice in a difficult art making perfect.

Yes , it's like anything else that someone practices and gets good at - and that's when the practitioner might come to view it as more than the obligatory 'doing someone else a favo(ur)'.

I can't see that happening in this young girl's case though - from what she says.
Quote:
I think "skull-full" is okay but the Shorter Oxford and the Collins both give "skilful"

I like the word 'skull-full'. Sometimes I feel like I have a 'skull-full' (of all sorts of things). Did you just make that up?
spendius
 
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Reply Sun 16 Aug, 2009 01:47 pm
@aidan,
I did indeed Becks. It was an ironic boast.
spendius
 
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Reply Sun 16 Aug, 2009 05:09 pm
@spendius,
The Yang beating the Woods in a dramatic finale was quite appropriate I thought. A sign possibly.
Francis
 
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Reply Mon 17 Aug, 2009 12:56 am
@spendius,
And funny too..
spendius
 
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Reply Mon 17 Aug, 2009 05:07 pm
@Francis,
Yes and including one of the best iron shots you'll ever see as well.
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berher
 
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Reply Fri 30 Jul, 2010 03:44 pm
all of these replies are unbelievable. My bf loves head and I'm great at it but hate doing it. All I do when I don't want to do it is:
- make sure he feels my teeth
-look very angry bored and disgusted
-show no emotion besides frustration
-no sucking whatsoever can happen
-by this point he has pushed you off and has lost his erection

**beware this may cause blue balls, cheating, loss of interest, and may lead to a break up....but atleast you don't have to worry about giving him head again...it works for me jejeje
contrex
 
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Reply Fri 30 Jul, 2010 05:00 pm
@berher,
berger, this thread died nearly 1 year ago.
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spendius
 
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Reply Fri 30 Jul, 2010 05:07 pm
@berher,
That's what comes of taking lessons off neurotic Agony Aunts and hung-up therapists instead of trusting yourself.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 30 Jul, 2010 07:50 pm
@spendius,
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That's what comes of taking lessons off neurotic Agony Aunts and hung-up therapists instead of trusting yourself
Yep, never tell a therapist that you would be willing to take one for the team, they will tell you on the spot that you are one sick puppy. Relationship is supposed to be all about you, don't you know?
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Jane Woodward
 
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Reply Tue 2 Aug, 2011 11:15 pm
@angell,
I have been married 8 years, we have 4 kids and I don't work. My husband has a good job. I simply hate giving head and the swallowing part. But he expects it all the time, it seems. I'm afraid to say no as he left the last time I refused him...for a week. I try not to buy I weep afterwards. I find it disgusting for a refined woman to be made to perform such a degrading act as this. I just could not manage to raise the kids without his money. And now he's wanting it a lot more on the weekends.
Jane Woodward
 
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Reply Tue 2 Aug, 2011 11:19 pm
@Jane Woodward,
Oh, and he video tapes it now. I have no idea where the video tapes go but his friends seem to be mentally undressing me when ever they come over. And he calls me his ********** more lately and I'm afraid people will overhear it.
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Krumple
 
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Reply Wed 3 Aug, 2011 12:19 am
@Jane Woodward,
Jane Woodward wrote:

I have been married 8 years, we have 4 kids and I don't work. My husband has a good job. I simply hate giving head and the swallowing part. But he expects it all the time, it seems. I'm afraid to say no as he left the last time I refused him...for a week. I try not to buy I weep afterwards. I find it disgusting for a refined woman to be made to perform such a degrading act as this. I just could not manage to raise the kids without his money. And now he's wanting it a lot more on the weekends.


Not sure if you are kidding with most of this or not but I absolutely dread your scenario. It also doesn't really make you sound all that great either.
spendius
 
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Reply Wed 3 Aug, 2011 04:23 am
@Krumple,
I too suspect JW of being a bloke joshing us.
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