my boyfriend loves getting head but i dont like to give it

That would seem the best and most mature way to handle it Angel...and then just be as open and creative as you're able to be otherwise.

Sometimes there are things he can do that might make you want to do certain other things. You just really have to learn each other.

Is this a real problem in your relationship - or is he just whining?
This can result in a power struggle if you allow it to.

Ignore him. When he whines about it, tell him you want a mink coat, too, but you know you're not going to get it.

Most times, women don't like this act because the man is not clean. Start out with a bubble bath together and see if it changes your mind.

You deserve a serious answer to your question and it's no.

No. You can't turn him on without head. In fact, you'll never in your entire life have a satisfactory relationship unless you can give good head on a moment's notice.

If you can master this technique though, you'll be happy all your life.

PS If you can also become proficient at cunnilingus and pull out that skill judiciously...like on your man's birthday, New Years Eve and Valentines Day...you'll be sought after and treated like a queen.

I hope this is helpful. Pay no attention to these other clowns. (no offense CR)

I'm waiting for the, "I hate getting head but my girlfriend loves giving it" thread, so's we can put people in touch with each other and really solve some problems.

put some pizza rolls in the oven and rent a couple of movies....

Yep. One word. Anal.

For some reason Anal is actually a turn off for a fair number of guys. Some form of homophobia I expect, as once it made no difference which sex you sodomized, either way you were considered gay.

You know what those guys should try?

One word. Anal.

really?
But I thought that was the way things were done in Victorian times.

I am not homophobic at all. I just don't like the idea of putting my "Johnson" in the place where poop comes from.

Seriously. Comedian Louis C.K. does a bit on this subject. He says something to the effect of, "You're mere centimeters from the greatest place on Earth. Why would you want to stick your dick in somebody's crusty, dried up asshole?"

if u ask me, i'll say u guys just started dating thats why u're not comfortable givin him a BJ or u're probably still too young. Its not a big deal really.

or he's really unattractive.

so, only attractive people should get head?

well it's all relative really isn't it?
I wouldn't give head to hideous guy, but someone else might.

Everyone likes to pretend they aren't shallow, but everyone is to some extent.

I only go down on women with long, silky pubic hair, perfectly aligned pelvic bones, and supple, glossy vagina lips.

She's gotta have a pretty crotch, is what I'm saying. Call me superficial.

I am a straight guy, so maybe there's an angle I am missing, but why would anybody want to suck a penis?

Ulterior motives, they call it..

For heroin. Or even a partially eaten bag of Doritos. Cool ranch.

I was in a shopping centre called Nice-Etoile, on Avenue Jean Médécin and in the toilet the back of the door was covered with hand written messages "cherche mec pour me sucer la bite" etc. Someone had angrily written "Connard! c'est la rue du SIDA!"