@roger,
At this point, I do trust medical professionals more than I trust Dys to effectively self-diagnose and self-treat.
I don't like hospitals any more than anyone else does, but there are some damn good doctors and physiotherapists and occupational therapists and nurses and other medical professionals out there. You'd be foolish to think you know more than they do. There are certainly individual exceptions, but on the whole I do trust medical professionals more than I trust people with Dys' medical history to self-manage.
It's all well and good to not want to die in a hospital, but not taking action and getting treatment that can prevent an early death, well, I think that's just stupid. And encouraging people to think they can self-assess and self-manage is stupid, unkind and cruel.
Much of this could have been prevented by appropriate medical care and intervention some time ago. The hip fracture can't have been unanticipated, given the relationship between smoking and decreased bone density at the hip with age.
old news There's a reason a couple of us were making comments of concern about the leg pain some time ago.