@Mame,
Okay, call me a crazy vagabond, but I'm doing it. I rented a storage locker and some movers so as of Nov 1st, my stuff will have a permanent home.
I gave my notice and will be out of the apt and homeless as of Nov 6th which is when I visit Alex in Calgary for a couple of months.
I can't believe I'm doing this. I'm 50 for cryin' out loud. But my ex thinks I'm nuts so that means I'm moving in the right direction