martybarker wrote:I was thinking along the same lines as Mame, I guess I was hoping for some snuggle time.
Could be that you weren't sending out strong enough vibes or that he wasn't picking up on them or that he froze. Could be he cares for you so much that he scared himself. Could be a lot of positive things.
Where do you go from here, though, is the question. I repeat, I think you should stop agonizing over it and come right out and ask him. You may never know otherwise, and that'd be so unsatisfying. You'd be plaguing yourself with doubts about it till you die and that could seriously hamper any future relationships.
"Hello Bub. I'd like to speak with you. When would be a good time to call?"
followed by the call:
"I really enjoyed myself with you in NN town last weekend. I thought we were really connecting and hitting it off, but from your silence, I feel that you may not feel the same way. Is that correct?"
Something along those lines. In your words, of course. What do you think?