JPB wrote:I'd call him - not in anger - just call him, tell him you don't want to be left dangling and you'd appreciate hearing what he's got on his mind. Leave it as a message if you have to, but DON'T USE TEXT. Tone cannot be delivered accurately using text.
Don't ask about his feelings, just his thoughts.
I think he hasn't been able to express himself very well at this point, mb ought to give him a little bit of his own medicine. I don't think he's capable of being straight forward, as in saying-- I'm scared, or whatever...
Think about it-- she flies all the way to Podunk just to see him and he pretty much ignores her, then he sends different signals about why she didn't stay longer, and now he doesn't call when he says he will. Understandably, mb's already disppointed-- and this is the early stages of the her getting to know him.