purplejasmine wrote:
honestly, i dont wanna marry him as of right now. with all the issues weve got, its definitely not the time to marry at least.
but hes telling me otherwise.
i told him i needed time to think it through and itd be a bad idea to go ahead and just get married, but hes kept telling me that hes waited long enough for me and hes not waiting for me any longer.
you have your perfect "out" right here - if he won't wait any longer, then keep him waiting and he'll break up with you.
Just say, "I'm not ready for marriage and we've only been together for a year, and we're both so young. Sorry, I'm not ready yet." And if he has a temper tantrum, say, "I don't think I want to marry someone who is this immature. Sorry, I need to think about it some more" and just keep delaying it until he breaks up with you.
Who cares what he's telling you otherwise? There are two of you there not one, so it's up to both of you. YOU'RE NOT READY and YOU'VE TOLD HIM THAT.
Be very wary of people who don't listen to you.
P.S. I think he really, really wants to have sex!