How much time do you have, shewolf?
I tell you anyway why I am a "friend" on my daughter's facebook: she's had
accepted friends from friends who she thought were her age. She felt comfortable accepting them, as these friends were indeed friends with some of hers and were showing up on her "recommended friends" list. 14 year olds
are all about socializing all the while being still naive and childlike, it never
occurred to her that some of the recommended friends could have ulterior motives. When I checked them out, these friends of friends paned out to be
adult males who somehow got onto the facebook friend list of one kid and
added more kids from there.
An adult male - my daughter doesn't know and naively added to her list because her friends have - has absolutely no business of being there. My daughter never would have removed him as he didn't really interact with her, he was just sitting there "being a friend" and gathering information I guess.
Trust me shewolf, you will check Jill's online activity and you also will check
Jill's cell phone activity, as you never know who preys on your child.