@Roberta,
Ah, dilated eyes. I know them well.. in my case, once I get inside my home and away from the freaking sun, I kind of like them being dilated since everything is suddenly much brighter for my badly dark adapting eyes. (Except, Oh! the floor is dirty!) Hard for a while to read all that well on the computer, but that passes, at least for me, in not that many hours.
Glad there's no glaucoma, and cataracts when they do develop further are usually a snap, and people are generally much much happier with their vision after getting rid of them. But one has to wait, something about them growing or hardening enough to have the cataract easy to extract.
Do you have any old frames? One optometrist back in northern california would fill prescriptions to my old frames, though I suppose most won't. That is, if medicaid doesn't just pay, you may be looking for inexpensive ways to do this.
We have a thread here somewhere about getting glasses cheaper online. I've never tried that since my prescription is for trifocals. I remember people (some?) on that thread being happy with those.
I hate to recommend it, but Walmart, where I gritted my teeth and checked it out, often have at least one row of inexpensive frames, as in ten dollars a pair. I even found a pair I liked... but they don't do trifocals either. But that lady in turn sent me to some guy (Diane and I called him the geezer) who did do trifocals at relatively little money.