I think it's so sweet when someone who doesn't even know me, cares so much about my health.
Awwwww!!!!!!
Haven't heard from messy1 in a while - wonder if wifey got a hold of her!
And on a related subject:
A middle-aged couple had two beautiful daughters but always talked about having a son.
They decided to try one last time for the son they always wanted.
The wife got pregnant and delivered a healthy baby boy.
The joyful father rushed to the nursery to see his new son.
He was horrified at the ugliest child he had ever seen.
He told his wife: "There's no way I can be the father of this baby. Look at the two beautiful daughters I fathered! Have you been fooling around behind my back?"
The wife smiled sweetly and replied, "Not this time!" 
If he will do it to her , then he will do it to you
If he did leave her for you , it would scare you to death . Then you would feel like you had to do for him ' and he would remind you of that more than you care to know . There is no turning around on a dead end road , unless you get stuck in the mud -- Moving on and putting this behind you is the only fair thing that you can do for his wife . She doesn't deserve the fact that you and he get a thrill every once in a while -- Big No No here
