Apart from distance and finance, we have another problem. We are not very young. I am 37. He is 38. We won't very young anymore. We only have dreams. There is a long way to go for both of us. I want to have a good end for our four-month forgetable love. Sometimes, I say to myself " let it be". I won't be naive anymore. True love exists and we can put it in the heart. Many people have true love and haven't been able to realize it.
I bought this bridge one time (as is, no refunds) but the price didn't include the river.
What the hell does that mean, dys?
He is from Cameroon. I know little about that country. I know little about africa, as a matter of fact.
You thinking this whole thing is a sham, dys?
No, I don't think that the whole thing is a shame. We were embarassed when we were together at first. However, now, we are not.
We have had love. If we can not make it, we won't feel regret. After all, we have had made efforts. He doesn't leave me because of the distance and finance. It means a lot.
Well yeah to the blue haired lady but then the Dys is such a cynic.
When he came back to China to meet me, he didn't stay a long time, because he planned to do so. After he lost his job, I just knew that he was working in his homeland and asked for several-day leave. From then on, he got into finacial trouble.
He spent twenty days travelling from Cameroon to China. He delayed in Paris for one day when he went to China. The flight time was two days. The railroad time was two days. All in all, he experienced much pain to arrived in China.
Due to my family's disagreement, he felt frustrated and he was seriously sick when he returned to his homeland.
He is a good man. I try my best to be nice to him. But both of us are missing each other and can not have a happy life.
Slow and steady wins the race.
Longtimenosee wrote:Due to my family's disagreement, he felt frustrated and he was seriously sick when he returned to his homeland.
OK, so that seems to be what Snood asked -- your family DOES have a problem with him?
I'm with dys on that one!
exactly how is it that we can help you? It is not clear to me.
I believe if true love exists, time is not problem. But if the guy always waits for me without limit, I feel that I am not nice to him any more. Lovers can not be together, which is the worst thing in the world.
You accept pay-pal or would cash be better?
What have you done to verify what he is telling you?
How do you know he doesn't have a family or families? How do you know he is single?
How do you know he is not lying to you left and right?
I'm all for trust but it has to be earned.
Has your own family earned your trust?
And as political and whatever else incorrect it is to say this: African men have some mighty strange ideas when it comes to relationships. Ohh don't even get me started. He may be educated, smart, lovely to be with. Roots go deep. I'd be frigging wary!
How many African men have you known? You admit you know nothing of his country. Maybe check into that as a start?
