Quote:I don't feel comfortable when I know I'm smelly and dirty- but maybe that's just me.
Well, in general, neither do I. However, personally, sweat does not bother me in the slightest. When I come back for a run and there is sweat dripping all over me, I just like to chill out in the fan and let it dry off, and then I'm totally cool with it. Grease, on the other hand, I cannot stand -- which is why I shower in the morning, but not when I come back from the gym. For some people I know sweat bothers them and makes them uncomfortable..but I think it depends on the person. Clearly, it doesn't make her uncomfortable, or she'd be doing it every day...
Osso, my little bro was like that when he was young. That's sort of why we gave him the nickname "pukerat the unclean." Anyway, it was gross...and he never washed his pillow, so it developed this glossy black sheen on it...when it was supposed to be purple. It wasn't good for his pores either.
Quote:I think the bigger issue for me is how it seemingly has no affect on the wife's "comfort" level knowing that she is making her partner uncomfortable with her change in habits.
Maybe her own comfort has become more important to her than his.
Yes, but...when its coming down to your own personal hygiene, that is an issue that is usually MYOB (mind your own business) so it is easy to see why she might feel annoyed that he is getting involved and why she may feel justified..like its just not his business.
I'm not saying that she is right, I'm just saying I can understand that perspective.