Dumass58 wrote:Thanks, Folks!
To clarify, we work together. I have not called her business a sinking ship. We have discussed the need to CHANGE the focus. Her concern is the employees and the clients. I say: What about YOU, ME, and the kids????
You work together -- it's "her business." Is she your boss? I'm confused about how that all works, can you clarify a bit more?
Quote:Someone said she is feeling taken for granted. Possibly. I do not want her to be suzy homemaker. I want her to take a breath. Smell the coffee. Let me pay the way......
And if she doesn't want to?
Quote:We can afford for her to work part time. I think deep down she wants the pressure. I don't think she wants to NEED me.
She can not want to without it being about that, necessarily. Maybe she just enjoys working. I loved working and am looking forward to going back.
She may enjoy financial independence, too, without it being about an allergy to needing you or whatever. Do you need to be needed?
Quote:How can I convey that we can live the rest of our lives with LESS PRESSURE. This doesn't mean she has to be subordinate. Just relaxed!
And, again, if she doesn't want to...? (Not very relaxing if it's not what she wants to be doing and she feels forced into it.)
Why is it so important to YOU?