that's good - do you tell new one off for bothering her? she'll feel better if she knows you are on her side.
we had a very very rocky ride in the early days with Rosie and Paddy but they are now really good together. they play and wrestle nicely - he occasionally annoys her - like the bopping of the tail when she
isn't in a mood to play but he now learns to give up and go and amuse himself because lots of the time she will play and they fly around the house, up and down the stairs, in and out of the garden like something demented! He has on a couple of occasions managed to snuggle up near her without her moving away. I found the water pistol, advised by several here.
really useful in the early days when she was frightened of him and he wouldn't let up.
Any photos?