@Roberta,
Quote:JTT, I read the article once. That was enough, thanks.
No, it certainly wasn't enough, Roberta. You didn't understand what was said.
Quote:You can say that you're right and I'm wrong. I think we're having a difference of opinion. I could probably find experts who disagree with your experts. Not gonna do that.
You can't find experts who disagree because those people are not experts. You don't want to find them because you'll immediately see that their arguments, such as they are, are fatuous.
As you can well imagine, I have studied this a great deal and it's ludicrous to call your "experts" experts. An expert in discussing issues from A2K, Thomas, knew quickly that these types of people, eg. Bryan Garner, are pseudo experts. Such has been the case with prescriptivists.
Quote:Third, and the bottom line here. It makes no sense to ME. Period. "They" is a word that refers to more than one thing. Period. I will not be moved. I may ultimately have to follow along with your ideas if I'm paid to, but I will never agree. And I will probably mutter a dirty word every time I come to something that I don't like not changing.
Your first two "reasons" are awfully Setanta like. You say that
"They" is a word that refers to more than one thing. and you are right, sometimes it does. Sometimes, it refers to
But what you are missing is that words like 'everyone' also refer to more than one person. They are notionally plural. You know that there is a problem here because you have spent some considerable time discussing it here. The solution, a completely reasonable one, has been available to English users for centuries.
People, like you, have simply avoided it for the same reason you are doing so, stubbornness. Not really a firm basis for resolving issues, is it?
Of course, you are free to continue as you want in your own editing, but don't try to pass off these prescriptions as rules that describe how the English language works.