Re: Is my wife cheating?
Bella Dea wrote:depressedand confused wrote:
I actually resorted to checking her dirty underwear. 2 of the 3 pairs were so stained that they were crispy. (it was white and looked like sex had been there.) I could not stop crying. When she got home I asked here about it and of course she had an explanation. She says that every woman has discharge all the time. ladies.... Is this true?
You are a sick man.
You wife shouldn't have to explain her discharge to you.
Please.
On the other hand:
I don't think you're disgusting or sick for checking it, considering the circumstances, and you don't seem to be the jealous type. I also think her behaviour has been somewhat suspicious, and if it was innocent, why not protest a little more, be willing to see the counsellor, explain it all out so you're content?
I think most people trust one another, and don't get all suspicious for no reason. Usually there are gut instincts involved. Yours have kicked in.
I think she was up to something (Plan B) and is now being dishonest with you. I personally would be hiring someone to follow her or would follow her myself. Really, if I really wanted to KNOW, I'd do something to find out, one way or the other.
I'm sad for you that this is happening, whatever the result.