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Wife leaves and sleeps with anotther man.

 
 
flushd
 
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Reply Fri 26 Jan, 2007 12:59 pm
No really...Did you meet her on a shift? While you were in uniform and working?

Were you the 'hero' in the beginning of the relationship?
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texwill
 
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Reply Fri 26 Jan, 2007 07:12 pm
flushd wrote:
No really...Did you meet her on a shift? While you were in uniform and working?

Were you the 'hero' in the beginning of the relationship?


I can only assume you are being deliberately obtuse, but since this is the second time you have asked:

No. We met in graduate school. And I very rarely wear a uniform.

She is a teacher. Not a hooker, nor has she ever been one.

And my field of expertise in is gang intelligence and narcotics, not vice. So I doubt I could be her 'hero' in the context you seem to be implying.
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texwill
 
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Reply Mon 26 Feb, 2007 11:30 pm
Update:

I filed for divorce a few days ago.

She refused to stop lying to me and I have learned that I will probably never, ever be able to trust her.

She has since tried to get me in trouble with my job and mutual friends by telling more half-truths or outright lies as to garner sympathy and/or further hurt me...

Thanks again for the time all of you invested in reading and respondng.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Tue 27 Feb, 2007 12:20 pm
Thanks for the update, Texwill. Always good to know how these things turn out.

It did seem like there wasn't much left with you guys, glad that you're going towards a resolution.

Good luck.
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Tue 27 Feb, 2007 02:19 pm
Echoing Soz here.

Some problems can't be "solved"--they can only be ended.

Her bad-mouthing must be very distressing, but at least it will remind you what an impossible person she's turned out to be.

We're here if you need us.
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OCCOM BILL
 
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Reply Tue 27 Feb, 2007 07:40 pm
Further echoing... and don't be surprised if the vindictiveness gets worse before it gets better. Seems par for the course you're on. Try very hard to make all of your decisions with your head from here on out, so your heart doesn't persuade you into further hardship. Best wishes.
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stuh505
 
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Reply Thu 1 Mar, 2007 08:22 am
texwill wrote:
Update:

I filed for divorce a few days ago.

She refused to stop lying to me and I have learned that I will probably never, ever be able to trust her.

She has since tried to get me in trouble with my job and mutual friends by telling more half-truths or outright lies as to garner sympathy and/or further hurt me...

Thanks again for the time all of you invested in reading and respondng.


There was nothing you could have done differently. You just got scammed.
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