baddog1 wrote:My assessment of you is entirely logical based on your clear position as to the matter of a woman's rights as to her body and whatever may or may not be growing inside it. The foundation of your chosen position is also crystal clear on this very post! And you are still grossly minimizing your position on "Jane Roe"! The Roe vs. Wade case is the foundation for all of women's rights! For "Jane Roe" to rescind her position is monumental to that case.
Your guess is wrong. I did not attack your character - I questioned your position! Big difference!
What you actually said was:
Quote:Your statement above says it all about you and this subject. The "people" (person) you're referring to is not some unrelated woman off the street - now is she? Minimizing the role this person played in your entire personal agenda speaks volumes about "digging your heels in" on an issue. The facts are - there is no amount of evidence, factual information, testimony and/or basically anything in the world that you will consider - if it goes against your chosen belief. It's a pretty common psychological phenomenon really. I am unclear though as to why you would engage in discussion about it. You are not open to the possibility of altering your position on this subject - no matter the evidence. So why discuss it? What's your pay-off?
I said that people change their mind about issues, and you asserted that I never would, no matter what, because I am psychologically incapable of accepting evidence that goes against my beliefs. Then you suggested that I must have an ulterior motive (pay-off) for posting here. I don't know why you refuse to admit that what you posted WAS an unfounded attack on my character, not an assessment based on my position.
The Roe v Wade case IS NOT the foundation for women's rights. Our rights derive from the fact that we are human beings with minds and thoughts and feelings that are in no way inferior or subordinate to those of men. Long before "Jane Roe" was even born, women campaigned for and were granted the right to vote (1920 in the US), Margaret Sanger fought the laws forbidding the dissemination of birth control information (1918), and married women were given the right to own property (varies by state). The Equal Pay Act (1963) and Civil Rights Act (1964) were not founded on Roe v Wade. Abortion rights were not founded on the personal beliefs of "Jane Roe" but on constitutional law.
Quote:Everything in my post is "IMO"! That in itself is a fact!
Granted, but some "opinions" are stated as if they are facts and are therefore rebutted as such.
Quote:Just as the original Roe Vs. Wade case was an appeal to "emotions, rhetoric
" - that eventually became law!!!
No, the Roe v Wade decision was made with careful consideration of law, not emotion. Attempts to overturn it, however, have often resorted to emotional appeals and rhetoric.
Quote:You're still not getting it! Because all of this is based on each other's (emotional) opinion - there is no consideration to what is "fact" and what is not! What I consider to be "fact", you will dispute and vice-versa! Let me provide an example: I've posted links to photographs of "fetuses" showing their clearly developed human arms & hands poking out and grasping a surgeon's finger. It is my opinion that the photo's have not been altered. (Although I cannot prove this.) There are those who hold the staunch position that the "fetuses" shown are not "technically alive", certainly not human, nor do they possess any rights whatsoever (basic-human rights or otherwise). Most of those same pro-choice folks will not respond to the thread(s) associated with the images; or they respond by personally attacking me for having the audacity to post the images. So you tell me - fac t, opinion, or what?
Facts are independently verifiable, such as the stages of fetal development. It is a FACT that fetuses CANNOT deliberately grasp a surgeon's finger but do have a grasping reflex that can be used to manipulate the emotions of the gullible. It is a fact that the fetus is alive (and I don't know of anyone who has disputed that), but it is an opinion that it is a human being/person or that it should have any rights before it is capable of conscious thought or action.
Quote:Rape is an involuntary, vile, often violent act that most certainly adversely affects the woman and IMO - will also emotionally affect the child if born. Birth control failure still involves choice. All of us possess the knowledge that there is risk of pregnancy when using any type of birth control and still choosing to have intercourse. This risk varies with the assorted options of birth control and we have free will to choose what type (if any) to utilize. It is therefore MHO; that if/when we choose to utilize a form of birth control (accepting the risk), and choose to have intercourse - that we should be completely responsible for "whatever" occurs! (Included in the "whatever" is of course - the chance of beginning a new life.)
I don't know why the rape should affect the child, if it is given up for adoption at birth. Certainly it would be affected if the mother kept it and saw the face of the rapist every time she looked at it. In any case, I don't see why it is OK to abort child resulting from rape but not one resulting from emotional manipulation.
Choosing to abort a pregnancy that results from birth control failure IS taking responsibility. You may not agree with their choice, but they have the legal and, IMO, ethical right to exercise it. Not everyone can use the most effective methods of birth control, and some do not have the knowledge or self-discipline to use them effectively. People should have the right to enjoy sex (with consenting adults) without being obligated to become parents due to birth control failure, bad luck, or bad judgment.
Smokers know the risks but are treated for cancer even though their behavior caused it. People's lifestyles and choices put them at risk for a number of diseases and preventable accidents, but medical treatment is not withheld even when the victim's condition was the direct result of bad judgment. I don't see why accidental pregnancy should be any different.
Quote:I am unsure what "means it to be" is referring to. As to altering our fate - that is purely my opinion, based on my own beliefs! My related-belief is that we may alter our own fate however we choose (and reap the consequences - good or bad). However - I also believe that altering the fate of another living being for reasons of "basic" (in)convenience is humanely wrong - IMHO!!!
You said that "I feel it's her (and her husband's) responsibility to do all that is possible to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. If/when an "accident" happens - my own belief is that it was simply meant to be - if proper precautions were taken." I just wondered if "meant to be" in your belief system referred to Fate, dharma, or some omniscient deity's Plan. Should someone with a different belief system be accountable to the obligations of yours?
If altering the fate of another being for our own convenience is wrong, what about deaths that are "meant to be" but we use extreme measures to keep the person alive, despite their wishes and no matter how much they may be suffering, just because it makes US feel better?
Quote:The life that is involuntarily ended is hurt by your second question. (And in my life experience - those who chose to have abortions, have suffered (on various emotional levels and at various times) by questioning, wondering, etc.
The children that I never conceived were not hurt. The millions of spontaneously aborted eggs/embryos were not hurt. The embryos/fetuses that were deliberately aborted before they achieved sentience were not hurt. A life that
never existed CANNOT be hurt. I only know of one person who had an abortion (the subject does not come up in general conversation, so there may be others) and she does not regret it and to my knowledge has not suffered from it.