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When Does Life Begin?

 
 
Eorl
 
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Reply Thu 9 Nov, 2006 10:54 pm
real life wrote:
Eorl wrote:
Imagine a situation where a young girl has been raped by her father who has threatened to kill her if she tells anyone...realises she is pregnant. In a society where abortion is safe, legal and confidential...she has a way out. In a society without those things...her options are: Risk her life by telling authorities why she wants an abortion...Risk her life trying to procure an illegal abortionTake her own life, and that of the foetus with it, and a few other options all of which are nasty...(in all of these cases she's going to wait longer than she otherwise would, meaning the abortion of a later-term foetus)....

I want a society that protects and values people's lives. Now, if you are able to demonstrate to me that the life of 10 day old foetus is equal to the life of a 14 year old girl, then I need to consider risking that 14 year old girl's life to protect the foetus instead. But you can't demostrate that the two lives are equal because they are not, for many reasons. This is why I view the anti-abortion position as one that is cruel and dishonest, and costs lives, rather than the other way around. This is why the left, the humanitarians, amnesty international agree with me.


RL: Would you recommend the girl remain silent about the rape and protect the rapist (in your scenario, her father)?

Eorl: No, I would not. I'd reccommend strongly that she take the appropriate action (report to police, etc.) and then provide the abortion without conditions (if that was my role in this scenario)


Does your answer change if the rapist is her next door neighbor?

No


Does your answer change if the rapist is her school teacher?

No


Does your answer change if the rapist is her boss at work?

No


Does your answer change if the rapist is a stranger?

No


Rape should be reported , prosecuted and the rapist put away for a looooooooooong time (IMO , the minimal sentence would be measured in decades, not months or years). Do you not agree?

Yes, mostly. I'd be less harsh than you I think.


How can you say you agree if you are encouraging the girl to remain silent, thus protecting the rapist?

I'm not, and never would.I may, or may not take some action myself in the above situations. It would depend on my local ethics laws I expect. I would still provide unconditional abortion in any case
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Bartikus
 
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Reply Fri 10 Nov, 2006 04:22 am
cicerone imposter wrote:
real, It's not a matter of either or.


If not either/or...what is it a matter of?

Keeping in mind what your definition of 'is'..is.

When does life begin?

My answer...

When does it end?
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rockpie
 
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Reply Fri 10 Nov, 2006 07:58 am
it begins at the moment of conception.

straight away all the information is there ready to form a new born child. no matter what you believe in you can't deny that. just because it hasn't formed into a human shape physically does not mean it is not alive.
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Fri 10 Nov, 2006 11:16 am
And to concentrate on the fetus as being alive ignores all those already here that doesn't get half the attention. What's wrong with this picture?
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Doktor S
 
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Reply Sat 11 Nov, 2006 12:30 pm
rockpie wrote:
it begins at the moment of conception.

straight away all the information is there ready to form a new born child. no matter what you believe in you can't deny that. just because it hasn't formed into a human shape physically does not mean it is not alive.

Then, I suppose an accorn is really an oak tree?
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real life
 
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Reply Sat 11 Nov, 2006 07:39 pm
Quote:
Eorl wrote:
Imagine a situation where a young girl has been raped by her father who has threatened to kill her if she tells anyone...realises she is pregnant. In a society where abortion is safe, legal and confidential...she has a way out. In a society without those things...her options are: Risk her life by telling authorities why she wants an abortion...Risk her life trying to procure an illegal abortionTake her own life, and that of the foetus with it, and a few other options all of which are nasty...(in all of these cases she's going to wait longer than she otherwise would, meaning the abortion of a later-term foetus)....

I want a society that protects and values people's lives. Now, if you are able to demonstrate to me that the life of 10 day old foetus is equal to the life of a 14 year old girl, then I need to consider risking that 14 year old girl's life to protect the foetus instead. But you can't demostrate that the two lives are equal because they are not, for many reasons. This is why I view the anti-abortion position as one that is cruel and dishonest, and costs lives, rather than the other way around. This is why the left, the humanitarians, amnesty international agree with me.


RL: Would you recommend the girl remain silent about the rape and protect the rapist (in your scenario, her father)?

Eorl: No, I would not. I'd reccommend strongly that she take the appropriate action (report to police, etc.) and then provide the abortion without conditions (if that was my role in this scenario)


Does your answer change if the rapist is her next door neighbor?

No


Does your answer change if the rapist is her school teacher?

No


Does your answer change if the rapist is her boss at work?

No


Does your answer change if the rapist is a stranger?

No


Rape should be reported , prosecuted and the rapist put away for a looooooooooong time (IMO , the minimal sentence would be measured in decades, not months or years). Do you not agree?

Yes, mostly. I'd be less harsh than you I think.


How can you say you agree if you are encouraging the girl to remain silent, thus protecting the rapist?

I'm not, and never would.I may, or may not take some action myself in the above situations. It would depend on my local ethics laws I expect. I would still provide unconditional abortion in any case


What does that mean?

That you would report a crime only if you were required by law to do so?
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Eorl
 
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Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2006 05:18 pm
real life, like I said, it depends on the local laws. I would report if required, and not report if required not to report (read that carefully). If it was at my discretion, I would try to use that discretion wisely in each case. If I felt reporting would put more lives in jeopardy than it protected, I probably wouldn't. Would you?
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hingehead
 
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Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2006 06:00 pm
rockpie wrote:
it begins at the moment of conception.

straight away all the information is there ready to form a new born child. no matter what you believe in you can't deny that. just because it hasn't formed into a human shape physically does not mean it is not alive.


If that's the rule then we should be actively promoting cloning because every cell we have has the information to create a complete human being. Stop washing yourself your killing potential humans!!!

Nevertheless, I will concede that we can't say it isn't alive - except that was never the conjecture, the question was 'is a zygote a human being?' NOT 'is a zygote alive'. Is a tadpole a frog?
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real life
 
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Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2006 07:17 pm
Eorl wrote:
real life, like I said, it depends on the local laws. I would report if required, and not report if required not to report (read that carefully). If it was at my discretion, I would try to use that discretion wisely in each case. If I felt reporting would put more lives in jeopardy than it protected, I probably wouldn't. Would you?


You are saying if a young woman was raped and her life was threatened you would do nothing?
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real life
 
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Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2006 07:20 pm
hingehead wrote:
rockpie wrote:
it begins at the moment of conception.

straight away all the information is there ready to form a new born child. no matter what you believe in you can't deny that. just because it hasn't formed into a human shape physically does not mean it is not alive.


If that's the rule then we should be actively promoting cloning because every cell we have has the information to create a complete human being. Stop washing yourself your killing potential humans!!!

Nevertheless, I will concede that we can't say it isn't alive - except that was never the conjecture, the question was 'is a zygote a human being?' NOT 'is a zygote alive'. Is a tadpole a frog?


Is a boy a man? No, but both are living members of the human race.

The semantic games of the pro-abortion crowd are so lame, but I suppose that that is all you've got.

Do you have any MEDICAL evidence that the unborn is NOT a human being?
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2006 07:28 pm
real jumps from zygote to baby, then uses the analogy of boy to man. There's no way to explain simple concepts to someone who refuses to understand basic logic.
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Eorl
 
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Reply Sun 12 Nov, 2006 08:29 pm
real life wrote:
Eorl wrote:
real life, like I said, it depends on the local laws. I would report if required, and not report if required not to report (read that carefully). If it was at my discretion, I would try to use that discretion wisely in each case. If I felt reporting would put more lives in jeopardy than it protected, I probably wouldn't. Would you?


You are saying if a young woman was raped and her life was threatened you would do nothing?


No, I'm not. Although I am saying I would not make abortion dependant on forcing her to make a statement to police. My actions regarding reporting of crimes would not come into it.
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sandspider
 
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Reply Wed 15 Nov, 2006 01:27 pm
life begins when?
my opinion changed when I found out I was going to be a dad. My baby was in my Wife's womb. If it grows, feeds, dies it's alive. Babies don't appear, they Grow in a womb...or a test tube lol.
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Eorl
 
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Reply Wed 15 Nov, 2006 05:30 pm
My wife is carrying what we very much hope to be our second child right now. Due shortly after Christmas. It's alive and it's human and we are very excited and already falling in love with it.

If my wife had wanted an abortion, I would have done all that I could to talk her out of it....but, if she had insisted, I would have supported her. It's her body, it's her choice. Nobody has the right to force her to carry to term. Not me, and certainly not you.
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baddog1
 
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Reply Wed 15 Nov, 2006 06:31 pm
Eorl wrote:
My wife is carrying what we very much hope to be our second child right now. Due shortly after Christmas. It's alive and it's human and we are very excited and already falling in love with it.

If my wife had wanted an abortion, I would have done all that I could to talk her out of it....but, if she had insisted, I would have supported her. It's her body, it's her choice. Nobody has the right to force her to carry to term. Not me, and certainly not you.


Still having a hard time understanding (or perhaps agreeing) with your mindset - and your logic.

Taking you literally here: Are you saying that if your wife made the choice (w/o input from you) to abort your healthy human fetus in the 8th month, because she did not like "being fat", or she had a high school reunion coming up, or her tennis friends needed her for an upcoming tournament... - that you would support her decision?
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Eorl
 
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Reply Wed 15 Nov, 2006 06:40 pm
baddog1, I think in the 8th month, for the reasons you are giving, I would have her committed her to a mental hospital and have the baby delivered by force...that way, she is not being forced to continue being pregnant. From this point on, the baby is capable of living without her. No doctor in this country would perform an abortion in the 8th month anyway.

How many examples of 8th month abortions for the sake of slim school re-unions do you know of?
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Wed 15 Nov, 2006 06:41 pm
baddog projects like the best of neocons/conservatives. They post everything they can think up is negative.
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baddog1
 
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Reply Wed 15 Nov, 2006 07:00 pm
Eorl wrote:
baddog1, I think in the 8th month, for the reasons you are giving, I would have her committed her to a mental hospital and have the baby delivered by force...that way, she is not being forced to continue being pregnant. From this point on, the baby is capable of living without her. No doctor in this country would perform an abortion in the 8th month anyway.

How many examples of 8th month abortions for the sake of slim school re-unions do you know of?


eorl:

Please note that I stated "literally" in my question to you - and it looks like the facetious nature of my question was missed.

Allow me to be more succinct then:



Quote:
My wife is carrying what we very much hope to be our second child right now. Due shortly after Christmas. It's alive and it's human and we are very excited and already falling in love with it.

If my wife had wanted an abortion, I would have done all that I could to talk her out of it....but, if she had insisted, I would have supported her. It's her body, it's her choice. Nobody has the right to force her to carry to term. Not me, and certainly not you.


At what approximate date of pregnancy did you begin "falling in love" with your new baby?

You do not offer a final date for which you & your bride would have ceased to entertain the notion of having an abortion. What would that date be?
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baddog1
 
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Reply Wed 15 Nov, 2006 07:05 pm
cicerone imposter wrote:
baddog projects like the best of neocons/conservatives. They post everything they can think up is negative.


Quote:
edgar, That you grew and others didn't is a cheap shot.


Confused Shocked Rolling Eyes
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Eorl
 
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Reply Wed 15 Nov, 2006 07:35 pm
We began falling in love with the idea of having a baby almost immediately, and although it could not have happened at a worse time for us, there's no way either of us would consider an abortion for those reasons.

We had scans at 12 weeks and 18 weeks and no abnormalities were found. If they had been, we would have at least discussed the idea of abortion at that point. I can't know what decision we would have made if there had been.

What you seem to be missing is that no matter what decision we made, we don't have the right to make those decisions for other people.
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