Bartikus wrote:I agree. Just like a human is a human....wanted or not. The "desire" to keep or terminate is more than just a little suspect. History gives plenty of lessons on this.
But, it's none of my business because I have not helped every single person on the planet in need first. Nevermind that it's impossible for me to
do so.
If your message was muddled....I must be muddled cuz I can understand it.
No, it's none of your business because it's none of your business. Who are we too judge? I agree with most of mismi's points. The difference isn't that it comes down to when does life begin but, given that it's arguable, who should be the judge?
mismi -- I'm going to break down your thread and respond to some of the points. Not because I want to pick it apart, but because it's easier for me to respond that way.
mismi40 wrote:Things are what they are. A tree is a tree...the seed will become a tree...both a necessary part of life - the tree however does not feel or think and never will even when it matures to be a huge oak. So who cares? :wink:
Believe it or not people do care. A group of people in my community spent numerous energies getting woodland preservation and tree protection ordinances passed. Such energies are not unusual. Tree huggers abound in my community. On a larger scale, the impact on the forests of the Mississippi delta by Katrina is devastating and will in all likelihood impact all of us because of the inordinate amounts of C02 being given off by the rotting vegetation. There are many reasons to care.
mismi40 wrote:Parasites are parasites - the list has been given and I don't think the term can apply to a fetus - even before it develops its nervous system and has the ability to feel. But it is a fetus and will become a baby - unless terminated. The problem I have is the determination made by the mother or host (I hate that term - but fine - don't think it really hurts the argument to call the mother a host) as to whether this is a child or a parasite. It seems to me that changing the name of something because of the "desire" to keep or to terminate it is a little suspect. Things just are what they are - changing the name of something before it is accepted as worthy of protection and care - in this case the mother or hosts decision as to whether she wants to keep the baby - seems like it is simply a way to keep from feeling bad about making a choice that is in fact clouded by the mother or hosts desire to keep things normal in her life. And certainly that is hard - but to change the name of a living creature that will in fact be a baby seems wrong.
I agree, it does seem wrong. The individual making that decision will do so and will be able to live with themselves and their consciences or not. They should be judged on their moral choices by whatever power exists to make such judgments. If I thought that making abortions illegal would reduce the number of abortions then it's possible I would change my mind (although not likely, as I try to avoid legislating morality), but making abortions illegal just makes those who think its wrong feel better. If there were no unplanned pregnancies there would be no abortions. If there were fewer unplanned pregnancies there would be fewer abortions. To me the gain is achieved by reducing the number of unplanned pregnancies.
mismo40 wrote:It should be called what it is from the time it is conceived. So the question comes back to - When does life begin?
I'm sure whoever invoked this comparison has used terms like seedling, sapling, etc, but the fact remains that a tree will never survive when plucked from it's environment whereas a animal/human can.
I don't like this comparison much either, but I don't think it comes back to when life begins, but the argument of life vs sustainable life is valid. I also agree that the parasite/host verbiage attempts to dehumanize the dilemma, but the fact remains that there is an argument to be made for protecting sustainable life vs potential life. Given that the argument is valid, I don't see where ineffective legislation is the answer.
[As far as the child feeling pain in utero - surgeons anesthetize to keep the baby from feeling pain when they are having to do surgery on the child - such as when it has spina bifida or some other anomaly that needs to be corrected while still in the womb. Why would they do that if it didn't really matter? It seems that folks are talking out of both sides of their mouth when it comes to this subject, and it all comes down to whether the baby is wanted or not. Whether the fetus is wanted or not - as to whether we care if it is in pain. That seems wrong as well. I am still wrestling with the questions that have been put up.[/quote]
I wrestle with it too and as I've said, it's a choice I don't think I could ever make for myself. But, that doesn't mean I have the right to make it for someone else.