Ladies: Would you date a guy who'd been with a hooker?

FreeDuck wrote:

Why not.

I have a pretty good sense about people, so if he was a dickhead or a sex addict, I'd probably get that from him before I found out if he slept with a hooker. If he's otherwise decent, and not the type to be abusive of a hooker, then I see it as a simply human trait. All men (and most women) have one night stands. I can respect a man who pays for it.

oops

I mis took your responce as meaning you WOULD have a problem with a man who was with a hooker..

heheh...

I need more coffee I guess..

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Tico wrote:

I was going to ask his rates.

.25 cents an hour

( im his pimp. I have a paypal account for your convince.. )

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I dont think a persons "sex-capades" make a huge diffrence in my opinion of them. If I like them for who they are when I meet them, I can only hope they enjoyed thier lives.

If paying for sex was something they did before, well, it obviously didnt involve me and its none of my business.
Just like I dont need a long list of sexual conquests either.

You do what you want to do, when you want to do it, safely.

If you are with me, dont you dare go outside of our bedroom. That is a deal breaker.
What you did before I allowed you into my bed, so long as you dont have a disease, is not a concern.

Hell.. that might have been where you learned that wonderful thing you do to me..

I agree with this statement. I think I would just rather not know for some reason. Maybe it would make me subconscience some how.

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FreeDuck wrote:

All men... have one night stands.

Er... No, we do not.

Although lots of people agree that I'm weird.

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I agree with this statement. I think I would just rather not know for some reason. Maybe it would make me subconscience some how.

Damn, too late to edit. I meant self-conscience. At least I didn't say unconscious! Laughing

Haven't had my jo yet

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Alright, I knew I was overgeneralizing.

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flushd wrote:

Kicky - it's all about the effort. Takes 0 zero effort to call an escort and kick her ass out the door.
Takes 1-2 to date a stripper.
Takes 2+ to get a floozy.

You ever known a stripper, Flushd?

For one, I think it takes more effort to get a stripper to sleep with you than a floozy in the bar. They do that **** all day (or night) long already; the last thing they're waiting for is some guy harrassing them for extra action still when they finally get off.

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Yeah, I have a life long friend who used to strip. Mind you, he is a man.

It's not like I haven't been around or known any strippers/hookers. I've known more than I ever wanted to.

I just think differently about this than you, I guess.

Strippers are easy targets. Especially if you pick a drugged up one (umm, that is a lot of em). Drugs = sleep with you.

I do recognize that the strippers in your part of the world are of a different stripe than the majority around here, and the majority that I have seen in my life.

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When I lived in NYC I worked around the block from a club (granted high end). I often saw the women going in as I walked to the subway at night. They tended to be very attractive and I got the feeling many men would try to hit on them on and off of work, in fact the bouncers were probably the biggest, toughest looking guys I've seen outside of a professional wrestling. They were there to keep the "stage door johnnies" at bay. I'm sure there are all extremes of women who take off their clothing to pay the bills, but these women looked like they could be models and not particularly desperate for attention.

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Kicky's gotta take his phone off vibrate - and answer the flippin' thing.

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as to the original question - no biggie really. If the guy's a loser, doesn't matter if he hasn't paid for an escort - and if he's a basically good guy, doesn't matter if he did pay for a hooker.

though I think I'd want more than a coupla weeks between hooker and me.

just cuz I generally want to get to know someone a tiny bit first, and I wouldn't really like it if he was paying for an escort at the same time as we were getting to know each other.

Not decades. Maybe a month or so?

and I'm not sure I need to know. I definitely am not a fan of exchanging full sexual history details - some things are nobody else's business - if I'm smiling - you can just assume I'm thinking of you

testing. yes.
full detail exchange. no.

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The interior design firm that I used to work for did a strip club in downtown Toronto once. Fred was the assigned designer on the account, and at first he was crowing about it. All the meetings took place in a backstage room that doubled as the girls' wardrobe room. Lots of flesh. What Fred learned:

- almost all strippers, although very good at disguising this, despise men who hang out in strip clubs.
- many strippers are gay.
- of the ones who are left, about the only thing that will get their interest is a very, very, very big bank account.
- many of the southeast Asian ones started life as boys, and came here via Bangkok (spare me the puns Razz

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flushd wrote:

I just think differently about this than you, I guess.

Yesh.

Earlier in this thread, you compared strippers with "mildly retarded person[s] (not that strippers are mentally retarded - but the equivalent of disabled)". I admit I'm no expert. I only knew one girl who did a 'heavy' version of stripping for a bit, and one who was a prostitute for a long time (and no, I never saw the stripper strip and I never slept with the prostitute). They had their share of problems, for sure. But they were not stupid. Nor were they any worse a person than I am.

flushd wrote:

Strippers are easy targets. Especially if you pick a drugged up one (umm, that is a lot of em). Drugs = sleep with you.

If you've known many and you say so, that must be so for many. From what I heard from the two girls I knew, it was more like what Tico described. Really, when they got off work, the last thing theyd want is some guy hitting on them for free action.

flushd wrote:

I do recognize that the strippers in your part of the world are of a different stripe than the majority around here, and the majority that I have seen in my life.

We can only talk about what we know <nods>. And strippers etc, I'm sure, come in all kinds and stripes, like Tico also already kind of indicated.

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nimh wrote:

But they were not stupid. Nor were they any worse a person than I am.

Some of them are stupid, and some of them are rather despicable people. 'Course you wouldn't choose the cruel ones as friends. Smile

I knew that my comment about thinking of them like mildly retarded people would have a few people up with stories of the exceptions. Now that I have dug a nice deep hole....

I meant that most of the strippers I have seen are emotionally disabled, as far as i am concerned. I don't equate stripping with health. I wouldn't trust most of them as far as I could throw them. I know I'm not the only one who thinks like this either. lol. Hell, at least half of the men frequenting their services consider them much worse things. Mine at least has some basis in reality.

oy. I must be quite jaded. 'Dance through the pain, dance through the pain'.

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I am currently persuing an English nobleman of the very well hung, handsome variety, who has just about got up everything with a pulse in the past, so I think my answer would be yes.

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Oh ****! Avril is back. She's going to know I was talking about her...

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Avril's a damn fine fillie, if you ask me. Built for comfort, wot?

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I dunno.....I sure as hell was in love with one of my fellow students when I was doing my honours degree in English literature...and he was working as a prostitute at the time.

Adored Coleridge, he did.

What can I say.

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Yeah, and that romance flourished with a healthy sex life too, right dlowan?
Laughing

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flushd wrote:

Yeah, and that romance flourished with a healthy sex life too, right dlowan?

Sadly no...since he was a Tantric adept..... Crying or Very sad

Oh what I missed!

He saw me as a sweet and beloved little sister.

Sigh.

But we had a very satisfying intellectual and emotional relationship.

I still miss him.

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