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Ladies: Would you date a guy who'd been with a hooker?

 
 
martybarker
 
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Reply Tue 24 Oct, 2006 11:21 pm
kickycan wrote:
Okay, well I am horny. I know there are about ten bars out there within a five-minute walk from my front door...and in those bars, there is a chance that the girl of my filthy wet dreams awaits my arrival. I'm not going to go to a hooker tonight. Instead, I'm going to hope to find a loose floozy at last call.

Now, is that somehow more acceptable than going to a hooker? Why or why not?


Well then fine Twisted Evil Just put some clothes on first, it's a bit chilly out there!
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martybarker
 
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Reply Tue 24 Oct, 2006 11:24 pm
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Ladies: Would you date a guy who'd been with a hooker?


I guess this is something a man could always choose to keep to himself. However, don't leave the trace of the phone call to the escort service on you cell phone bill as my ex did.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 24 Oct, 2006 11:43 pm
Grrrrrrrtttt, to yr ex, Marty. It takes time.

The odd news is, at least relative to my brain, that I dream of stuff some time ago. From my own mechanistic view, I see that I am about to chuck certain protein accumulations... over and over.

I did dream of my ex last night, and I think I've not done that before. To me, there is often a blockout for a while, and then more recent people start to populate dreams. Anyway, he showed up young, and rescued me - from what I don't remember - with thoughtful words for a few seconds and then I woke up. Took me almost a minute to realize it wasn't real.

I'm well over all that, I say huffily, and never dream of him.

A decade and slightly more later, I get this damned dream.



So, Marty, I don't think I'm unusual. It takes people a long time to deal with stuff.
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flushd
 
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Reply Tue 24 Oct, 2006 11:49 pm
ossobuco wrote:
I've a male stripper friend. He's over 60 now. He was one of my teachers.
Ok, I was an adult, and he is an expert in certain academic matters.
I don't mean this post as funning at him, as he's one of the people I take quite seriously.

All the us/them lines are sort of fragile.


What do you mean, osso? Or are you simply telling a story?

Kicky - it's all about the effort. Takes 0 zero effort to call an escort and kick her ass out the door.
Takes 1-2 to date a stripper.
Takes 2+ to get a floozy. Smile

I'm thinking you're not only horny right now...but feelin' lazy. Oh well, so long as you have some condoms at hand, you should be allllright.

LOL.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 24 Oct, 2006 11:55 pm
What do I mean? I mean I have a friend that has done that. We still email.

I'll have to go back and check re what I could have said better.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 24 Oct, 2006 11:58 pm
As far as someone who does that and romance, I remember his joy, for a bit, when he had a romance.
I surely don't mean him to be some story.
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Amigo
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 12:02 am
kickycan wrote:
Amigo wrote:
One time when I was young I heard the older consrtuction workers talking about this massage parlor that was a front for hookers. So I went their. At the desk their was this pretty hefty old rough looking mexican woman. The kind that work in bad mexican restaraunts and wear those old f#@ked up dirty aprons. So I pay her and she takes me to a room and tells me somthing in broked spanish about a girl coming in a few minutes so I pay for the "treatment". So I'm waiting for this hot mexican chick to come in and Ten minutes later the same old fat mexican lady comes in and says "O.K. you ready".

I worked hard for my money back then. I wasn't about to waste it and she sure as hell wasn't going to give it back.


Hey, amigo! Glad to see you! Sorry about your experience with mexican whores. I guess you're telling me that I shouldn't do it then?
No just make sure you see her before you give her the money.

Good to see you buddy. Smile
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Amigo
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 12:16 am
I got news for the ladies here. The odds are very VERY strong your loving dads and sweet old grandpas were getting sweaty all over some hooker at one point in their life.

Did they like it? I don't know. I didn't like it. But if I went into the GAP and yelled "If one of you women don't bone me I'm gonna go get a hooker!"

Do you think some lady going to come up to me and say "Oh you poor man come with me."
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Chai
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 04:56 am
Well kicky, it's morning, so I guess my opinion comes a little too late.

I'd of said go for it as long as you used protection and went to a reputable place rather than some skank on the street.

Everyone here, except Amigo, is making out like seeing a hooker is such an unusual thing....Well, there's sure enough of them out there making a good living. Someone must be seeing them.

Kicky's young, single, and want's to get laid. He's got the money, doesn't want to meet his soul mate tonight, he just wants sex. Someone else wants to sell it to him.

What's the problem?

No, it wouldn't keep me from dating a man if I knew he'd seen a hooker, even multiple times.

You know how at some point people realized "even nice girls have sex and enjoy it"?

Well, even nice boys visit hookers.

BTW kicky....Ann didn't look at all your type...she was almost flat chested!
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Green Witch
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 06:55 am
I know many men have done it, but there's something sad about having to pay for sex. If you do go for it Kicky, at least try and find an independent working girl instead of donating money to some pimp purse.

(you know, I think Roxxxanne might be available)
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 07:23 am
I dont care WHO a man has had sex with.

So long as he doesnt have a disease, I could give a flip..
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Chai
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 07:26 am
Let's tag team kicky shewolf.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 07:33 am
he couldnt handle it..
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Lord Ellpus
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 07:36 am
I could! Well, for at least thirty seconds, anyway.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 07:37 am
I can always pass some smelling salts under your nose and that would give you another 30 seconds as well!
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 07:37 am
Re: Ladies: Would you date a guy who'd been with a hooker?
kickycan wrote:
I'm just wondering because I happened to notice a lot of ads for escort services in the back of the Village Voice tonight, and I haven't had sex in quite a while, and I don't really have any possibilities in the immediate future, and well, you know...


I would.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 07:42 am
why?
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FreeDuck
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 07:47 am
Why not.

I have a pretty good sense about people, so if he was a dickhead or a sex addict, I'd probably get that from him before I found out if he slept with a hooker. If he's otherwise decent, and not the type to be abusive of a hooker, then I see it as a simply human trait. All men (and most women) have one night stands. I can respect a man who pays for it.
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Tico
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 07:48 am
Damn! I keep mis-reading the topic titles. From this one, I thought that Kickycan was about to start a new career as a male hooker and wanted to know if that would ruin his chance of a meaningufl relationship later.

I was going to ask his rates.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 25 Oct, 2006 07:49 am
Im gald to see Im not the only one.

Would it change your view of me, after knowing me this long, if I said I was a hooker once?

Or if I said, I paid for sex before?

Or if I said i was a stripper ?


I dont think a persons "sex-capades" make a huge diffrence in my opinion of them. If I like them for who they are when I meet them, I can only hope they enjoyed thier lives.

If paying for sex was something they did before, well, it obviously didnt involve me and its none of my business.
Just like I dont need a long list of sexual conquests either.

You do what you want to do, when you want to do it, safely.

If you are with me, dont you dare go outside of our bedroom. That is a deal breaker.
What you did before I allowed you into my bed, so long as you dont have a disease, is not a concern.

Hell.. that might have been where you learned that wonderful thing you do to me.. Cool
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