okie wrote:I am simply very tired of people that won't stand up and say, I love it here and I love this country
Why in heavens name should anybody be expected to jump up and say "I love it here and I love this country"? What if you're not happy with the way it looks right now? What if you think it could be better, and you'd like to make it better? What if you're ashamed of the way your countrymen are going about at the moment, and you're ashamed
because they're your countrymen?
A sense of anger about what people have done to your country, if you think its in a bad shape, is as much taking and feeling ownership of the country as cheering and waving the flag is. Because it shows that you feel responsible for it, or for your part in it, feel connected to it - its
your country they're f*cking up after all. A sense of disappointment in what your country's become is as much a sign of commitment to your country as cheering and waving the flag; it's like with family. Who cares what a stranger does; but if its your brother who did wrong, you care.
And what of those who just happen to be bummed? Who just lost their job, or got into a fight, or are lovesick and the whole place reminds them of that other person? They can still say, I love my country, but, "I love it here!" will surely seem insincere.
And what if you simply feel quite levelheaded about your country? Like with family, it should be all the
easier to see that they got both their good sides and their bad sides, that you love them still for who they are cause they're family, but you're also pretty acutely aware of how they're surely their share of dysfunctional - it can be like that with your country too. Its your country, you feel familiar with it, its your home, anywhere else would be a strange land, but just like you might not quite be in the mood to stand on the table at Christmas and exclaim, "I love it here and I love this family", there might well be enough going to be lying if you'd just exclaimed, "I love it here and I love this country!" Cause, it being your country/your family an' all, you can still easily see which things are better in other countries, and which ones others could learn from you.
Ambiguity is no proof of lack of patriotism. Being perceptive enough to see that in some ways, other countries are better, and in some ways your own is, is no betrayal to your country. Wanting your country to be good, wanting it to be better than it is, or being disappointed or even angry when its not as good as it should be - all that shows up emotional ties to that very country, commitment to it, as much as waving the flag and exclaiming, "I'm lovin' it!" would. Its your country, not Mc Effing Donalds.