Quote:<ROTFLMAO> You are a real piece of work, mms!
Ha...I'll take that as a compliment.
The honest truth is, I will not allow my children to mistreat another child, and I'm not going to stand by and allow one to mistreat mine. I don't care what the parents say...or how they feel about it, tuff pooey!
It comes with having to deal with the juvenile delinquent next door. He's 8. And Lord help, he has a hard row to hoe...I know that, and try to be compassionate on him. And I am....but when he crosses the line, he goes home. (I have even punished my children over their behavior towards him)
Not long ago, we had my two riding on their four-wheeler, and along comes one of the neighbors grandson, along with the juvenile delinquent; both on four-wheelers.
They rode the trails out back through the woods, around my drive, around my house/grandfathers house and were getting along great. Until they decided to be boys and race. Thats when all hell broke loose, they were all going in opposite directions, meeting head on...and the two visitors were going full throttle.
I immediately whistled them to a halt, waved them all to me. Once they were all within arm distance, I told them that we didn't ride that way in my yard, that I didn't care what they did off my land, but where my children and they were concerned...we'd ride by my rules. If they didn't like...GO HOME! We all ride in one directions, my children do not get out of second gear,..Period.
They followed the rules...and no one got hurt.
And they haven't been back to ride since...lol OH WELL!
Quote:Oh sure, he wasn't always happy that I made his "friends" go away, but I made sure he knew it was because THEY had done something wrong, not him.
I know....been there. The youngest one was mad at me over the juvenile delinquent. They were jumping on the trampoline, the juvenile jumped up and drop kicked the son..almost knocking him off the trampoline.
I immediately come out the door, X looked pretty funny at me...I asked what he done that was wrong. Shrug of the shoulders. Well, X...go home and figure it out. When you think you can play right...then you can come back.
D..of course was upset that I made him go home..."we were just playing"........Yea...we don't play that way in my yard!