The "I love you" part is a classic ploy to get a woman into bed. Yes, there are men (and women) who mean it, I'm not so cynical that I think that it's impossible.
But it's what my father always told me - when he was in High School (in the 1940s), he learned the classic way to get a woman in bed. Fortunately he is not a jerk and did not pull this with my mother. It is, ahem,
Quote:If she thinks she's smart, tell her she's pretty. If she thinks she's pretty, tell her she's smart. And never stop saying I love you.
As you can see, the formula continues to hold true to this day.
This guy told you what he thought you wanted to hear, in order to get you into bed. He feels no obligation to hang around. I'm sorry, I really am, I know it makes you feel foolish. But better to have learned the lesson now and be done with it, than to wait for this immature fool overseas and then, a year from now or whatever, to learn the lesson.
Cut your losses. He will not change, at least not now and, I'm afraid, not because of you. Send him packing, he
deserves it.