@Lash,
Okay I've read a lot of posts but this one I just have to reply to. I want to begin by saying most of the other posts are so angry and hateful the people are not interested in discussion but only demeaning and showing their intolerance and bigotry.
Now on to your post.
The religious hierarchy? Which ones. I was say yes some do play people but others do not. Your argument "presumes" that religious people are "susceptible to believing almost anything" I say this is shallow and ignorant statement. I agree that many people are ignorant of why they believe what they believe. But I can apply that to those who follow political leaders blindly when they know nothing of what that leader truly believes, Just look at the ignorance about what "Hope and Change" meant.. The vast majority were ignorant of what that meant. ( I could debate this point at length but must move on).
Okay gay marriage. There are so many ways to approach this, that an argument is hard to pin down. If you argued in the affirmative on the basis of religion then you have really erred. If you argued from the political then you have a chance of making a good argument.
You are incorrect that your points are unassailable though you fail to list your points here...
First I will address your points in your post then post my view and possible solutions.
1) God doesn't make Mistakes. (though true a poor argument).
When God created man he was not caught by surprise that man would transgress against Him. It was in His plan to redeem fallen man. The fallen Adam introduced the SIN nature to the human race and with this all forms of sin are created in the hearts of men. The point of whether a person was born gay does not excuse them from Gods Law. Many straight people say they were born with overactive libidos and use that as an excuse for premarital sex, multiple sex partners or any of hundreds of sexual fetishes. Are sexual fetishes genetic? The truth is after mapping the human genome NO GAY GENE has been found. Even the American Psychological Association has changed their statement on Homosexuality in light of this, just this past year.
So do people choose to be gay? Myself or any other person that I know would never CHOOSE to be gay. The pain of a gay lifestyle is overwhelming, why would anyone CHOOSE to be gay. I don't think anyone in their right mind would choose it. Its against the very laws of nature, It will NEVER lose its moral stigma, the homosexual sex act is in direct violation of God's law. So I don't think anyone makes a conscious decision to be gay. When did any straight person CHOOSE to be straight. So were they born gay? As of now there is absolutely NO scientific evidence to prove that. However there is no evidence to show that homosexuality is a conscience decision (at least for the vast majority). Homosexuality is most likely the result of nurture over nature. Though my belief that this occurs probably in very early life before a person even becomes sexually aware. Something in their sexual psyche is turned upside down. There are studies showing this (twins who are not gay, no gay feelings before sexual abuse etc.) But no one should ever be hated or rejected for having a same sex attraction. The question here is really about religious freedom not someones sexual identity. The Bible clearly teaches that the ACT of homosexual sex is sin and is against nature. This is incontrovertible no matter how many activists want to twist it to meet their beliefs. But no where in the Bible is same sex affection or love mentioned or condemned, only when that affection crosses the line into sexual lust or sexual acts. THEN is when it becomes a sin.
Now the religious element of this is that no matter how you try to argue it, no society in history has had Gay marriage until the last few years. From a historical perspective even in pagan societies "gay marriage" was not accepted. Primarily marriage has been a religious issue and the historical religious definition of marriage holds the upper hand here. No religion should be FORCED to violate their deeply held values, and forced to recognize a marriage that violates God's law. .. So no God does not make mistakes. MAN made the mistake by transgressing against God and thereby introducing the sinful nature to mankind thus creating a separation between God and man.
2) God did make man in His image. Man was created in Gods image. Perfect and holy, but with free will to do as he pleased. The first man and woman were created perfect. They chose to violate that perfection and thus introduce imperfection to mankind and the earth. This is NOT GOD who did this it is man and his sinful nature. God is not gay because God is not sexual,but he did create sex and he created it for a purpose.. 1) For procreation first and foremost 2) For the purpose of spiritually and physically unifying a husband and wife in a holy union. Neither are accomplished by homosexual sex.
3) Born homosexual: I've addressed this, there is no proof as of this time that people are born gay.
"If they accept that it blows a big hole in their religion".. you are most unequivocally incorrect. It does not. As I said God created man perfect, man chose a path of separation from God and a sinful nature. The sinful nature is an inherent part of the Christian religion. Without sin we have no need for salvation and the love of Gods sacrifice of His Son for our sins would not have manifested. So it is the sinful nature that gives birth to sinful attributes, i.e. homosexuality, pride, murder, selfishness or any other sin named in the Bible. From a positional perspective sin is sin. Sin of any type or nature is what separates us from God. Therefore the sin of pride separates us from God just as easily and positionally as does fornication or homosexual sex. So no hole is blown in our belief system. It fits right into it.
4) The Big Bang Theory... this is really another whole argument but again this is an unproven theory. At its core the Big Bang theory is more in line with Judeo-Christian Theology than science likes to admit. Science cannot to this day explain what set off the Big Bang. (I know what did). What you see as "fighting against" is merely nothing more than vetting the evidence. We have a right to question this theory to point out its flaws and to offer alternative explanations. We are not mind numbed robots, but intelligent questioning creatures that desire truth. In my opinion science seems to prove the theory of intelligent design over complexity by random natural processes more and more every day.
I have not to this day seen a valid "threat" to my religion, because science continues to substantiate my view all the time.
Now for my solution.
1) The government should not be involved in Marriage in any way shape or form. This should become a strictly religious ceremony left up to each churches own beliefs and standards.
2) All persons should be able to create "legal partnerships" for the purpose of inheritance, life decisions, and other legal issues. These would basically be contractual relationships that would protect any person and offer benefits and rights to any "partner". Children are already by blood receiving these rights.
Solution 2 if the govt does not get out of the Marriage business.
There will be two types of relationships for all people.
1) Covenant Marriage: this will be traditional marriage as has always been defined, but will be to the extreme. Divorce in a covenant marriage is nearly impossible. The no fault divorce will be a thing of the past. Divorce will only be allowed in the cases of Abuse and Infidelity. Proof must be provided and a long period of marital counseling must be required (except in abuse).
2) Civil Unions: This is for everyone else Gay or Straight. This is more of the typical marriage of today. Same rights but only contractual and can be dissolved easily through legal means.
I hope you can see things from a different point of view with my statements.