My daughter is married to a really lovely guy. They are a great couple... they get along, respect each other, love each other dearly. THey also communicate really well, ie. they actually talk to each other about any issues which crop up. Yesterday she text-messaged me that they had had a huge fight and she was sitting on a park bench crying. Here's what happened.
Two weeks ago, she started to arrange a camping trip for her and hubby, and his sister and her bf, and two of his brothers for this weekend. Both brothers knew they had to find a tent (they're obviously not campers!). Well, they didn't, so my SIL tells my daughter, D, that even though the brothers offered to sleep in the car, one could sleep in their tent and the other could sleep in sister's tent with her and her BF. Well, my daughter said Absolutely Not, and so did the sister
Hello?
My SIL got really mad and threatened to cancel the whole thing. This is completely out of whack for him - he's so easy-going, amiable, affable, etc... but he and his family are so close - they love to hang out together, etc, and will do anything for one another. It's just wonderful to see that. Because my daughter and her husband have a home and steady jobs, the kids are often at their house, and guess who feeds whom?
They are around all the time and I think my daughter feels a little cramped. I love these kids, too, but back to the issue - with respect to sharing my tent with one of them, no thanks. Anyway, SIL was livid or furious or irate - anyway, completely po'd, and my daughter was very upset, too. I should also mention that they recently had two family tragedies which undoubtedly is affecting their emotions more than usual.
Anyway, question: do you think she was out of line in not wanting to share her tent with a BIL?
I hope this makes sense and that you got enough of the background to give your opinion.